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Subject: 我可以點...??

Author:
雪

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Date Posted: 00:02:16 10/18/04 Mon

之前...我話自己已有男朋友,其實我仲未有男友的...我咁講既原因係想你死心...我係接受唔到同性戀...大家都係女仔...好難要我係其他朋友面前同你拖手...同你有親密行為...對唔住!!
我唔知我咁做係對定錯,但我真係覺得好心痛..我係對你有好奇..定還是真係鍾意你??
好想喊...我可以點...??

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[> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??

Author:
Apple
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Date Posted: 01:35:24 10/18/04 Mon

>之前...我話自己已有男朋友,其實我仲未有男友的...我咁講既
>原因係想你死心...我係接受唔到同性戀...大家都係女仔...好
>難要我係其他朋友面前同你拖手...同你有親密行為...對唔住!
>!
>我唔知我咁做係對定錯,但我真係覺得好心痛..我係對你有好奇
>..定還是真係鍾意你??
>好想喊...我可以點...??

心痛系分好多種架```依D要你自己淋清楚你系咪真是鍾意人``如果吾系既話只是存在你既好奇心就吾好傷人地啦```如果真是鍾意一個人又何需理會其他人點睇呢``又何需理會對方系男定女呢``更何況鍾意一個人無罪架喔````你自己淋清楚啦```支持你架``!!!!

[> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??
Author: 雪 [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 01:11:01 10/19/04 Tue 唔知點解..我會咁吸引那些TB...我沒有什麼特別美的地方...

[> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??
Author: 路人 [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 03:54:36 10/31/04 Sun 你會心痛,其實是否你已對人有意思喇. 愛情不需要理會他人目光,大謄的愛,也許會愛得很精彩.但若果只是好奇的話, 請別想了.

[> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??
Author: Yaya [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 11:34:39 01/28/05 Fri 感情既野，要黎就黎，如果已成年，一個未婚，個未嫁，試試亦無妨。如果未成年，即係心智都未成熟，讀書啦，唔好諗咁多喏，睇定D自己想點先。點解怕係其他朋友面前同佢拖手？唔拖咪得羅！邊個叫你去宣傳？唔拖好冇face咩？

[> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??

Author:
lip
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Date Posted: 12:09:40 01/29/05 Sat

[> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??
Author: 雪 [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 22:48:42 01/29/05 Sat 其實...我好辛苦...我覺得自己係鍾意佢...但又接受唔到自己係同性戀...

[> [> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??
Author: Cat [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 23:00:20 01/29/05 Sat >其實...我好辛苦...我覺得自己係鍾意佢...但又接受唔到自己 >係同性戀... If u really love someone, you don't mind if someone is her or him.

[> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??

Author:
Yaya
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Date Posted: 13:49:32 02/01/05 Tue

I re-read your message. Are you afraid because she wanted you to hold hands in public? If so, talk it over. Tell her you don't like doing that. If she cares about you, she will go your way.

I am bi-sexual. I have had one-night stand with guys and they liked me. I don't know why I was attracted to them. However, I rather stay with the girls, who are more sensitive and not as demanding. My love life has been great. It is just a relationship (I had 3 and just fell deeply in love again). You don't get criminal record. You can always go back. Life is short. Enjoy yourself. Instead of suffering, give it a try. Friends may laugh at you behind your back, but who cares? This is when you will find true friends.

[> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??
Author: 雪 [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 16:32:38 02/01/05 Tue yaya:係ar,我就係驚尷尬,好開心你會將你既經驗同我分享呢...之但係,我而家同佢既關係已經冇我拒絕佢之前咁好了,我好唔想咁樣..佢對住我又好似好冷淡咁...

[> [> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??

Author:
Yaya
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Date Posted: 16:34:49 02/04/05 Fri

唔好意思，電腦香左，覆唔到俾你，上次重要打英文。

停一停先，你三個月前寫呢封信，佢而家已經對你泠淡左，呢段感情好似重要培養好耐喎！
唔好貪好奇勒，如果係肯試愛上一個同性的（其實異都係一樣道理，不過同性比較難決定），開心就一齊行街睇戲，睇下會唔會去到互相關心、難捨難離既地步再決定啦。

性（或任何的肌膚接觸）是發乎情，止乎禮，唔使留住咁多幻想，要黎就會黎架啦。我知道好多人都唔係咁重視，有的重唔識，亦覺得難接受。

[> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??****忠於自已****

Author:
shu
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Date Posted: 00:16:33 02/14/05 Mon

尷尬一定有啦！不過佢好似都唔係好鍾意你．．．咁易放棄，只要自已真係愛一個人，就應該勇往直前，既然自已選擇呢條路，就知道唔會咁順利得到自已所愛．．．應該有晒心理準備啦！

如果係我仲想同佢做朋友既話，就會大膽同佢講自已既感受，但知唔知道．．．咁做真係好難架，好似以前一樣．．無可能！氣氛改變就係改變左，既然已經拒絕，就唔好再唸喇，自已又接受唔到，又怕其他人講，咁辛苦為乜？？？？
人生短短數十年，自已鍾意咪得囉，做每件事都係為自已，想點就點．．．．雖然唔易，但係做人真係要忠於自已既感覺先會感受到幸福既存在

我身邊既朋友仔不斷問我鍾唔鍾意我一個相識好耐．．好耐．．好耐．．既女仔，我唔係接受唔到同性戀，因為我都係(雖然未試過)，但係對佢真係無果種feel，friend黎架，最慘就係連佢都間唔中問我．．．．．
好彩我平時嬉皮笑臉慣，如果唔係見面時會尷尬死．
我唔想傷害大家咁耐既感情，不過我用另一種方法帶過，到家雖然都會發生相同情況，但係我地都仲係好朋友，我信唔會變．．永遠．．好朋友

要清楚自已先知自己想點!

[> [> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??**忠於自已**
Author: yaya [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 17:55:19 02/15/05 Tue 阿Shu講得幾岩丫。不過你都幾得意喎，訪問下你勒，又未試過，點知自己係呢？又「係」左幾耐呢？冇對一個有過Feel？

[> [> [> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??**忠於自已**
Author: 雪 [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 00:07:35 02/17/05 Thu >阿Shu講得幾岩丫。 > >不過你都幾得意喎，訪問下你勒，又未試過，點知自己係呢？?>S「係」左幾耐呢？冇對一個有過Feel？我係未試過,但好易感覺到佢對我係點,有對佢有feel..但就要抑制自己咁．所以好辛苦!!

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: 我可以點...??****忠於自已****

Author:
Yaya
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Date Posted: 13:30:11 02/17/05 Thu

唔係呀，我係問亞Shu「係」左幾耐呀，都未試過，又點知呢？夠有大把女人想摸我啦，成日想索我油，我都唔相信佢地「係」，愛慕之心係有，貪我靚仔有型之麻，不過就不會打埋身波勒。有個重話第日養我添，聽下算勒。

我覺得你同亞Shu又幾似，不過佢就未遇到一個有feel既，遇到果陣就同你一樣咁慘勒。

覺得有feel咪去多兩次街o羅，試下溝通，睇下會唔會心連心，佢開心，你開心，傾下心事，互相關懷，如果分分鐘都掛住就實冇錯勒，去馬啦。

[> [> Subject: Many Thanks^^

Author:
shu
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Date Posted: 21:42:13 02/24/05 Thu

今次係我第二次黎, 相距咁耐先再黎只因實在太多野做...真係好累呀~ 見到有你地回應真係好開心^^

我真係未遇到個有feel既女仔, 又可能有但係我唔多覺掛, 呢方面我比較遲鈍, 但我覺得屬於我既true gril還未出現, 我相信如果遇到既話, 我一定會話佢知我既感覺...我唔會比自已後悔, 結果係點唔知道, 但係唔行第一步就一定知道會係點

Yaya, 好多謝你有興趣想知道我點解未試過又知係, 其實由我好細個已經覺得女仔係比男仔吸引我, 好鐘意一齊既感覺, 我永遠都暢所欲言, 會講笑同一齊玩, 呢d同男仔係無架, 都無興趣..

我唔知點解亞雪唔去正視自已既問題, 點解要自已唔開心, 自已既路係要好努力咁去起架, 條路唔會話你知要點行, 放膽吧!! 要對得起自己

真係好多謝你地關心^^

而家天氣冷, 希望大家都保重身體!! 請好好照顧自已!!

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Many Thanks^^

Author:
Yaya
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Date Posted: 15:21:11 03/03/05 Thu

唔知呢，如果你仲未開始過，應該都未算係，
好難講，可否結論要有任何的接觸才算係呢？
會唔會接觸過後覺得好嘔心呢？
所以覺得你同阿雪都未必係。

睇見呢度靜英英，幾日都冇覆信睇，
最近去左blur-f.com　個度好熱鬧，雖然有ｄ無厘頭，
都有時睇到唔識訓，忙就唔好去啦？

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Many Thanks^^

Author:
shu
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Date Posted: 23:18:07 03/17/05 Thu

近排發生左喇．．．．．．
我這個月識左個女仔，雖然時間好短，但我發覺自己鐘意左佢，每次同佢講野時，我既心都跳得好厲害就算唸起都係咁，我會因為佢唔開心所以我都唔開心，因為佢開心所以我都會好開心，呢種咁強烈既感覺未試過，就算工作中，我都會想起佢，日日都好想好想搵佢，係咪咁就係鐘意呢．．．．好其待同佢傾計既時侯～～

我ｆｅｅｌ到佢既感覺，但係我地無一齊，雖然我真係果ｄ會做主動既人，呢刻我識佢太遲．．．．
佢已經結左婚有埋細路，我唔知點解，明知無結果仲咁想佢，我而家其實都幾辛苦．．．．．

我無同佢講佢應該點處理佢而家既問題，因為我知道我會勸佢為左細路，唔好咁做，我知佢為左咁都好痛苦同成日唔開心左好多年，我真係唔想佢唔開心，我好想好想響佢身邊，支持佢，陪佢，安慰佢，令佢安心ｄ．．

如果呢刻我同佢講我既感受而一齊，我會成日都唸起個男人同我知道我會忍唔到架，咁樣好似仲唔開心，所以我唔知講唔講好

我唔知自己想點，我而家乜都無做，只係傾下同互相關心下，我都未試過咁既情況，想做唔敢做根本唔似我

會唔會有人可以同我講呢？？點算好．．

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Many Thanks^^
Author: Yaya [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 11:55:10 03/18/05 Fri 下！乜咁大件事？傾下偈好喇。佢有老公，唔通拆散人地家庭咩？有細路仲慘，陀手lung腳，唔通叫佢唔要細路？呢種關係冇結果架！千祈唔好開始，想信你仲後生，來日方長。佢現在只需要一個傾訴的對象，你就幫下佢啦。

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Many Thanks^^

Author:
shu
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Date Posted: 18:53:59 03/20/05 Sun

我問過3個人都係咁講
我唔介意有細路,但係我最介意做第3者,呢個係我而家唯一堅持,原來我仲有少少清醒
我地而家都只係傾偈,有好多次我想同佢講,但都無講到
以前我都有set到自己理想既情人,有d自信,信自己,做自己認為對既事,唔會任人擺佈
但係佢既性格係完全相反....
唔知點解咁都會鐘意
我相信我好難走番出黎,我而家可以做既都只係維持現狀,真係要學習下收埋自己既感受,原來多野講唔係一件好事,了解咁多做乜呢..
真係好多謝你同我講我真係唔可以咁做,我知架,但明知係咁都想,唔通真係要比人鬧..
好希望下次仲可以同你傾偈
THANKS!!

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: 第三者
Author: Yaya [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 22:26:57 03/20/05 Sun 唉，同你地講就扮尊家，因為都有番咁上下年紀同經歷，真係燒到自己身上米一樣咁煩惱！和新戀人都是第三者，又唔同人地講得，因為冇向人正式承認過，岩岩撞番個大學時候既男同志，先有傾訴對象。想傾偈就Ｅ我啦。 fl1189@yahoo.com