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請教下我應該點做??

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痛苦既tb

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Date Posted: 00:14:34 04/03/05 Sun

我係tb...有一個3年既gf... 但係已經愈黎愈淡...
上上年... 我鍾意左班入面一個女仔... 佢曾經好明確表示自己一定唔會鍾意tb...
但後黎我從我個fd得知個女仔鍾意佐我...
但係我唔捨得同我gf散... 而個女仔就隨住一個漫長既暑假而淡忘左...
今年... 我又同番個女仔一班... 我地愈黎愈熟... 我發覺自己又慢慢鍾意番佢.. 而且有時都會做d幾親密既行為... 例如: 拖下手咁.
係其他人眼中... 我地係好朋友.... 但係係我gf眼中... 個女仔就係眼中釘... 憎到佢死......
當我愈黎愈鍾意le個女仔... 甚至考慮同我gf分手既時候 (但係我冇諗過同個女仔一齊) 有另外一個人介入(佢唔係lesbian)...跟住我地就成日3個一齊玩... 但其實le個女仔只係想親近我既心上人... 復活節之後開學... 我同心上人就變得好生疏...佢已經同個女仔熟到唔記得左我... 對我好泠漠...心上人仲猛咁明示暗示我知佢已經變佐...
我宜家真係好痛苦... 我好妒忌個個女仔...時間愈長...我對我gf既內疚感就愈重...究竟我應該點做至好? 同唔同我gf分手好? 但係會令到gf唔開心 (佢有自殺傾向) 同埋佢可能係唯一一個對我好既人... 我又應唔應向個女仔表白?
大家幫下我~~~~

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[> Subject: Re: 請教下我應該點做??

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reg
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Date Posted: 20:00:53 04/03/05 Sun

妳不覺得這樣的妳~~很可憐嗎?
一下子喜歡人家一下子又怕自己女朋友生氣內疚

人家有了新的伴侶妳也吃醋..
但試想~~妳是個有半的人耶..雖然同志沒有婚姻沒有約束力
但是妳因為日久而生情,可想過妳身邊人的感受..
今天妳會這樣的痛苦
妳可曾想過妳身邊陪伴妳三年的女朋友更難過
要就~~妳先分手在談另一段感情
要就~~妳跟妳三年的GF好好的溝通~~
事情沒有對錯..更何況感情~~~

妳不要做讓自己後悔的事情就好~~其他我沒意見

希望妳快樂~~~不認識妳的路過人