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Subject: Re: boy problems!


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Date Posted: 11:58:39 04/10/03 Thu
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In reply to: kelly 's message, "Re: boy problems!" on 15:57:37 01/05/02 Sat

I have been with my boyfriend for four years. I will be turning 21 and have moved several times. I moved out of my mom’s house when I was eighteen because I was ready to leave and face the new challenges. My boyfriend’s mom was having financial difficulties so I decide to help her and move in paying a large amount for rent. Then she decides to sell the house six months later, so to save money my boyfriend and I moved into an apartment paying half for everything. I hated living with him when I was helping his mom because he would think he had some advantage over me. I felt that it was up to me to help the mom (even though she has two other sons that are older that can do it) with her debt that’s why I didn’t leave. Then when my boyfriend and I had our apartment he felt he had a bigger advantage because his brother lives around the conner and he makes more money than I do (first job since I have been with him that he made more money than me). His brothers are jerks and have no respect for women whom they refer to as bithces. There have been a few fights in the new apartment but seriously I am not trying to start anything. Recently I was sitting on the couch and my boyfriend comes and lays down putting his feet on me. I told him repeatedly and calmly to take his feet off of me. Well finally I told him why doesn’t he listen to me and he exploded and we started arguing I am no saint either but he doesn’t listen. Then I said to him in tears he was so mean, then he tells me "you’re a bitch, you’re a bitch, you’re a bitch." Then he looked at me and said to get the fuck out of his face and why was I crying for I know it’s true. I haven’t talk to him in three days and now he acts like nothing happened trying to get close but I just won’t go near him or I get away from him. I threatened him I would leave but he doesn’t care what I do anyway. We do have our good days and bad but I am fed up and I can only take so much. But when he starts acting nice trying to make up for what he has done I feel bad for ignoring him.
Please give me your honest opinion on what you think. I can only give you not even a piece of all what has happen with my relationship with my boyfriend, but hopefully you can get an idea if you go by this.
Thank you.

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