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Subject: Again, you think Beth Dearing is NOT a basher, THINK AGAIN!! I would be ashamed to be coached by her!! Author: No name [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 17:16:39 02/03/08 Sun BD quit talking about our kids you are a joke! Warning to all this women is crazy. -- No name, 17:59:37 02/03/08 Sun [3] I have a question. Is it normal for coaches to be loud and obnoxious? -- PM, 02/ 2/08 11:36pm We were at a pageant last week and Beth Deerling or however its spelled was there. I was shocked at how she acted and someone said that wasn't anything new, she always did that. My question is do all coaches show their butts like that? Who does she coach? I know my Mom was ready to leave watching how she acted. I am sure we are going to need a coach sometime this year but would like to get more information about how they are suppose to carry themselves before we try anyone. I do not know of a "pageant etiquette" rulebook anywhere. I guess you have to go with the coach that you like the most. Coaches are not known for being timid, so good luck on finding one that meets yours and your mommy's standards. We are in Nashville, could you give me names of the ones who coach here? Thank you in advance. My mom is a great Grandmother but I do want someone she can be around too. -- PM, 02/ 3/08 12:09am We have used Miss Mikki since Adrianna was 7 months old she helps with pics, clothes, h/m vendors, pageants, coaching/modeling, etc..., she is great and my grandmother, which is Adrianna's great grandmother,always goes to pageants with us, and her, Adrianna and myself all love her to death. She comes to Nashville and doesnt charge outrageous price. I would not suggest anyone coach with Beth Dearing, she talks about anyone and everyone that comes in contact with her! -- She is a known basher! Please find someone that is qualified to be a coach!, 02/ 3/08 8:39am Exactly. She has bashed my child, and if she does it again, she better be looking over her shoulder at every pageant from now until doomsday.... You got that Beth? Better think twice before you open that yap again. Beth Deerling bashes HER OWN STUDENTS AND THEIR MOTHERS. I have heard it with my own ears. Any mother who coaches with her who thinks she doesn't bash your child is in DENIAL. I have been at two pageants that she has, and on both occasions I have heard her talking poorly about her own students and their mothers. she also charges $40 to tan and her tans are AWFUL!!!i once asks her to fix my child's tan and she said NO. she is also got something wrong with her, if you ask me, JUST AN OBSERVATION, but once talking to her,she kept talking and talking and talking and her eyes were going ever which way. She didn't make sense, seriously, I DO NOT recommend her to anyone. JMO AND OBSERVATION! BD is a joke. She is known to talk about other coaches, directors, and her own students. Anyone that coaches with her better watch out. She is trouble. BD you can't talk about people like you have and get by with it. -- pm, 02/ 3/08 12:34pm she has really been talking about her hazard county crew. Met this lady at a pageant and all she did was talk about other people. She is not a coach she is a basher -- tu, 02/ 3/08 1:21pm Re: she has really been talking about her hazard county crew. Met this lady at a pageant and all she did was talk about other people. She is not a coach she is a basher -- pm, 02/ 3/08 3:54pm If she is as bad as you say, why do people use her? That doesn't make any sense to me. I have heard bad stuff about all the coaches but nothing like this Beth lady. nobody uses her she is a joke and basher -- pm, 02/ 3/08 4:00pm I think she has lost most of her students due to her bashing the kids and moms. -- pm, 02/ 3/08 4:45pm She doesn't have anymore students the parents found out they were getting talked about and they all decided that she wasn't the right choice -- She even talked about her students even the little ones, she is bad news if you ask me!, 02/ 3/08 4:49pm I found out about her at Mystical fairies with her talking about everyone. She seems like a nut. Her and Miss Mikki is partners which is bad news for sparkle babies. -- tn mom, 02/ 3/08 4:56pm [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: looks like a lot of people are upset with her. It is on the pink board and lots of posts on the TN board. I don't think we need her in Ohio. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:17:50 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: I am so sick of seeing bashing coach posts. I have seen post on the pink boards bashing Amanda, Alisha and everyone else. Heck I am sure ALL coaches talk about other people. Just use who works for your child. If you do not personally hear the bashing don't start with the rumor spreading. If I hear ANY coach bashing another child I will not use that coach but thats not until I hear it with my own ears. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:12:38 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: other moms caught her bashing her students and other people. That is why she lost many. She is a trouble maker and even Ohio Moms found that out from their last coaching session. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:47:14 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: I would like to know which OH moms heard her bashing, I was at her last OH session and I want to know if she bashed my children. She didn't say anything about anyone to use but I would like to know what others heard. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:28:03 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: She bashed some little blonde girl, I believe around 5-6-7 or so, an older girl around 12 and an african american child. Just sad :( Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:32:02 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: So she bashed some children who were not there becuase I was there the whole time and no one like that was there. I just wish everyone would post exactly what was said I would like everything out as we use Beth as a coach and want to make sure no bashing is going on Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:35:43 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: There was no 12 year old girls there so how could she bash someone not there ALL I see it must of be the familys ghost Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:37:47 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Maybe she bashed another ohio girl whom was 12, just not there at that session? Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:40:54 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Did she even have any girls at the session? If so, how many? 1? Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:48:25 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Could you please tell what she says about other kids since you know it all Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:02:50 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Could you please tell what she says about other kids since you know it all Author: pm [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:04:43 02/03/08 Sun I'd like to know that also. I have never personally heard her say anything "about" the girls she coaches. She only has high praise for her girls! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Could you please tell what she says about other kids since you know it all Author: I'd like to know that also. I have never personally heard her say anything "about" the girls she coaches. She only has high praise for her girls! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:05:23 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Yes, you can't say one thing nice about a coach without someone running their mouth. Sad people. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:17:24 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: I met this lady one time and all she did was bash other people. I feel bad for any one coaching with her. She is trouble and brings trouble with her. She has bashed KJ to many people and now says she is her top student. Just a sad women and anyone that falls for her sad stories should be ashamed Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:46:30 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: How can she be KJ top student when she only coached her one time? Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:02:05 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: I met this lady one time and all she did was bash other people. I feel bad for any one coaching with her. She is trouble and brings trouble with her. She has bashed KJ to many people and now says she is her top student. Just a sad women and anyone that falls for her sad stories should be ashamed Author: curious [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:25:39 02/04/08 Mon who is KJ? [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: dumb question but who is KJ? Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:45:09 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Kalisa J Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:17:10 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: What did say about KJ Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 20:56:16 02/03/08 Sun [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Again, you think Beth Dearing is NOT a basher, THINK AGAIN!! I would be ashamed to be coached by her!! Author: Curious [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:36:08 02/04/08 Mon Who is KJ? What are the names of the children you have heard her bash? If she was bashing them,why did you just sit and listen instead of being an adult and speaking up? Did it make you feel better to have her down others and not you? and then you found out different? Who gives a rat's ass if she talks about you people on here? Youa re grown and obviously are no better by doing the same stuff. I am new to the pageant business (yes it is a business)and all I hear is how all coaches suck and talk shit and all directors are cheaters and liars.Amazing any of you even want to do a pageant...I have sat next to Beth when I did not know her at approximately 3 pageants. I have never heard her say anything bad about anyone there-child or parent.So I actually find it hard to believe that somenone trying to GAIN business would sit by potential clients and be so unprofessional. Does anything you people say ever make sense? So if you know specific names of CHILDREN she has bashed: list them. If not shut up. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: ok here goes some names KJ, DB, BS, DB, HB, BF, TM, HM, KS, KP, TS, KC, MD, LB, TP, ES, PW, KM, and the list goes on and on. She has bashed so many people and many of these girls she don't even coach. She always cries a sad story for people to feel sorry for her. What about the pageant a few weeks ago where she didn't have gas money to get home on? Click in Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:43:45 02/04/08 Mon What about the problems she has caused for DS. Back in the day she even bashed DL. The next time you see Dawn ask her about Miss Beth. We don't need our kids exposed to a lady like this. Ask Miss Mikki about her if you want to know the truth. All of these posts are the truth BD what will your sad story be now? How can you say you didn't bash innocent kids and parents when you have been caught by directors, other coaches, and parents of your students. Miss Mikki banned her from coaching with sparklebabies because she was caught bashing. Just be warned and watch out if you don't want your child to be the next one she bashes. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: I have no clue who any of these girls are or this coach and we have been doing pageants for 4 years? They must be National Girls? or just from another state? Anyhow why bring this to ohio boards? Anyone else feel same way? I for one do not care to read about stuff that has no bearing on ohio pageants!!!!!!! Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:28:42 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: she is coaching in OH glad we decided not to coach with her anymore. Had a lesson this past weekend and was not impressed. Seems like she was too busy talking instead of coaching. From the looks on other boards she has been caught bashing Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:54:30 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: she is coaching in OH glad we decided not to coach with her anymore. Had a lesson this past weekend and was not impressed. Seems like she was too busy talking instead of coaching. From the looks on other boards she has been caught bashing Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:56:30 02/04/08 Mon That was our experience with her as well. She spent the entire time talking about her daughter, and the pageants her daughter has done. She was bashing Michael Baca, bashing Glamour Girls, bashing Sparkle Babyz, bashing Ashley, bashing other kids, and bashing their moms. Yap, yap, yap. She talks ninety miles a minute about stuff that no one gives a crap about. When I am paying for a lesson, all I want to hear about is my daughter. That's it! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: I recognize most of the initials and we have not even done pageants for a year. c/i Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:03:02 02/04/08 Mon Ms Beth was fine coaching my children I had no problem with her at all. I don't see why people cannot just get over it. All coaches have been bashed before and it will never end. Even we you think your coach is a saint someone will be waiting right there to tell you different. Like when we first started everyone in Ohio said use Donna then all of a sudden they said no she sucks use Amanda. Unless you are going to post specific things that Beth has said about KJ or anyone else just let it rest. If you don't want to post here at least have the courtesy to email MJ and let her know what is going on. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: I don't want anyone to coach my DD that is going to bash her. It is obvious that BD has problems. I was told that months ago. She coaches local kids that will never compete at the larger nationals and never will have what it takes. Maybe she puts everyone else down to make herself feel like a bigger or important person. I don't think we need someone like this coaching our kids in Ohio. The ones she does coach in Ohio probably will only do local pageants. If she is calling herself a coach she needs to act like one instead of putting other people down. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:11:40 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: I never heard bad things about her before I met her. I came to this board and everyone was bashing Mikki. Beth has coached my dd and she will be doing nationals all year long. Just becuase a person does not coach with a group of 500 does not mean they cannot do well at a national. I know a person who only coaches two girls and one of her girls won grand supreme at GG and everyone talks about her all the time.You cannot believe half of what you read on these boards Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:19:44 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I don't want anyone to coach my DD that is going to bash her. It is obvious that BD has problems. I was told that months ago. She coaches local kids that will never compete at the larger nationals and never will have what it takes. Maybe she puts everyone else down to make herself feel like a bigger or important person. I don't think we need someone like this coaching our kids in Ohio. The ones she does coach in Ohio probably will only do local pageants. If she is calling herself a coach she needs to act like one instead of putting other people down. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:01:22 02/04/08 Mon That is a mean thing to say about these kids. Maybe they just new and are learning. You are out of line saying they will never have what it takes. I hope one of Beth's current students or one of her former students beats your kid at the next pageant you do. I would laugh my ass off. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: I recognize most of the initials and we have not even done pageants for a year. c/i Good for you, But they can't be from ohio??? or I would know who they are so they must be out of state? or National girls? like I said above WHAT BEARING DOES THIS HAVE ON OHIO PAGEANTS? TAKE IT SOMEWHERE ELSE!!!!!!! PLEASE If I had to guess at one I would say ts is taylor sherman but who cares!!!! Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:30:44 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: AS SOMEONE SAID SHE COACHES IN OHIO SO IT HAS BEARING IN OHIO, btw I see plenty of discussion here that has nothing to do with OH I am not the one who started this topic just responding the same as you are responding Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:36:16 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Well I guess if you like drama you wouldn't mind it. But she must not coach too many from ohio it's easy to tell that it's one mom posting all this. We get it mom you do not like this coach. We have all been warned, I will sleep tonight because of you.lol Now move on!!! Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:48:49 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Well I guess if you like drama you wouldn't mind it. But she must not coach too many from ohio it's easy to tell that it's one mom posting all this. We get it mom you do not like this coach. We have all been warned, I will sleep tonight because of you.lol Now move on!!! Author: pm [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:07:38 02/04/08 Mon I looked for bashing about Miss Mikki since it was posted on the Tn board, 10504. The only thing I see is BETH bashing her. We have coached with Miss Mikki for two years and she would not tolerate Beth, which is why she does not coach for Sparklebabyz. It is very apparent that Beth wants to try to turn this on someone else, which is insane. Beth you coach 1-2 children MAX and Miss Mikki coaches over 100, tell me who is the bad coach?????? No one is that stupid Beth, they know you are bashing everyone. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Look on page 3 of this board. Someone from TN posting about SB's stealing routines and so on you probably thought it was Beth becuase she posted after that with her name but did not change the subject line You need to click in for what she wrote Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:17:40 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: THAT was Beth. She told TS she had posted that. Hell I don't care what you believe. You can think its nothing but its sure has hit strong on three boards in one day saying how she is. Author: You know one might be lying, two just an opinion but this many? You can't believe its just not true at this point. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 16:37:26 02/04/08 Mon As for anything about SBs, we coach with that group. Our routines are nothing like anyone elses. We only do Nationals and we win at least beauty or higher, against REAL competition. Beth got word that a couple of the Illinois moms didn't want to use her, they would travel to Miss Mikki and that ticked her off. You can say the lady doesn't bash but I heard her myself at MF. She was nasty, she was foul mouthed, she was bashing her own students and parents, she was bashing Miss Mikki, Ms Mandalyn, both directors and other competitors. This isn't my opinion, it happened and too many people witnessed it for it to be just a fluke comment. It went on for hours literally. It was like she couldn't shutup. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: BD you are a piece of work to cause all of this. You are nothing but a basher and liar. One Mom is getting ready to post all your lies and emails. What are you going to say now? Be warned of this lady she is trouble. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:58:22 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: BD you are a piece of work to cause all of this. You are nothing but a basher and liar. One Mom is getting ready to post all your lies and emails. What are you going to say now? Be warned of this lady she is trouble. Author: dont post [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:18:19 02/04/08 Mon email to neophaetr@hotmail.com [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Anyone can say someone bashes ,so what kind of things does she say about these kids Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:13:07 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: That is what I would like to know. Examples please of things said without listing child's name or initials. TIA. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:52:25 02/04/08 Mon [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: WHY? Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:02:10 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Because specific expamples need to be given. Anyone can say, "someone bashes". That is easy. But if a person backs up with examples such as, "and she said X and X and Y" then even though it is on a pageant board and is to be taken with a grain of salt, it makes the post more credible. Just saying someone bashes, is not enough. JMHO. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:15:51 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: WHY? Why not list initials or names? Because it's not fair to the kids. Why would someone want to know what has been said? Simple, if the comment is one that would pertain to their child, they would know. If someone bashes a child, usually they will pick on something specific. Parents should be aware if their child is being talked about in a non-positive way. You can find out by looking on the various voy boards, why not ask for examples when you can learn directly who is saying them? So, that's why. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:47:39 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: c/i Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 07:41:07 02/05/08 Tue THIS is none of my business but since you brought this here, and have spend the last 2 days posting away. How sad by the way, since you obviously have a dd to tend to, but anyhow. Have you ever heard what you don't know can't hurt you.! Also now you are no better than the person you are accusing of being a basher. I will be honest I have to put things on here in the past, that I really don't know if I am proud of, but I think if your going to post anything post it one time. Warn people or help spread rumors, or maybe spreading truth or whatever your on here posting about. Do it and be done. But when you keep posting you become the basher you are posting about. You obiviously have never been bashed on the boards before, otherwise you would not be doing this now, let me tell you it is not fun to be called out on a board, especially if you are be wrongly accused! I have had this happen to me. Not fun at all. But you know what they say in the end what goes around comes around and in the end my basher got it back twice full. Just something to think about, and I hope it never happens to you. Good luck with your posting, but I have to say at this point I feel really bad for this woman and if I was an need of a coach I would probable call her up just because of all this. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Yes, what you don't know CAN hurt you. We are not in the dark ages anymore. For Pete sakes, think about that comment just a minute. Geesh! Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:12:50 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Your hopeless.. Maybe you need to read the post again to get the point. Point is you are starting to look like the bad one here. I will pray for you that something bad out of all this hatred doesn't come back bite you in the ass! How sad this whole post is. Good Bye Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:37:51 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Would you please stop assuming it is one or two people making this whole post?!? It is not. I discovered this post yesterday! My question is toward the bottom and someone is freaking because I asked for examples. That makes me really wonder why. And you pray but then hope something doesn't come back to bite me in the ass? Um, you may want to think about your wording on some things. Author: I agree, this whole post is a sad mess. Maybe someone will learn from this to stop gossiping and run a business instead of her mouth. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:41:34 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Why does BD keep washing the board? Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 09:36:40 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Why does BD keep washing the board? Author: pm [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:16:58 02/05/08 Tue I am sorry when has this board been washed??? It seems to keep going on , on with the same shit! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Wow, whoever it is that responds to some of these posts about BD, sure has a mouth on them! Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:38:08 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: I am beyond amazed that once someone ask for expamples of bashing to be given that it is met with such a diligence not to. Interesting. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:34:19 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: My daughter use to coach with Beth, I found out that she was talking about my baby and it hurt me very bad, I asked her about it and she had nothing to say, she did not one time say she didn't do it. People I don't think anyone will believe it unless they learn first hand but by that time you are so hurt. Author: All I can say is that Parents you have to learn for yourself, I know I did! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:39:07 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: What kind of things was she saying? Was she making fun of your child? Unfairly critizing her? Was it to other parents or directors? I'm just wondering what kind of things this woman is saying? Author: (I can understand why you would be upset) [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 11:45:11 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: She was making fun of my daughter and putting her down to the other parents, I just hope what I posted helps someone else I don't want her to say stuff about other little ones. Author: My baby can't defend herself but I can and I will! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 14:38:55 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: I don't think anyone really cares what BD says. I think 99% of coahes, vendors, directors and photographers gossip way too much. It's a shame because they are really alientating a lot of parents and then they wonder why their business are struggling and pageant numbers are down. Parents are not going to continue paying fees to coaches, vendors and directors only to have them laugh behind your back. And people wonder why parents are finding other activities for their kids! Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:51:57 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: I don't think anyone really cares what BD says. AMEN!!!!! LOL BO TAKE THIS MESS OFF. LET'S MOVE ON ALREADY!!! Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:18:04 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Scroll bar is to the right of the screen. Alternate messages are below this one. HTH. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:43:16 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: BD brought this on herself for the lies, bashing, and backstabbing she has done. Her new group that is now her favorite group will find out the hard way. If you want to know what type of person BD is call her ex students and ask them and also call the coach in TN Miss Mikki. She is telling it all. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:47:08 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> Subject: What has triggered the backlash against BD? This has crossed over 3 boards, so somebody is ticked to the hilt (not saying they are wrong), just saying that wow, she must have crossed the line. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:14:28 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: well I was told months ago about this lady bashing people. Looks like it caught up with her. I would say the Moms of the kids she bashed are very upset. I also heard Miss Mikki the coach told people what she said about their kids. I am just glad my DD is not around this person. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:42:06 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: I don't know who told you Miss Mikki was telling what she said. I know I asked and she refused to tell me anything, I even begged. She said she was not involved, but would not tolerate the bashing that got back to her. I respected that she didn't bash back. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:29:39 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: That is very admirable of Miss Mikki. I do not understand why BD is saying (I think it's in an archive post), that she does coaching on her own and w/ Mikki (or may have said Sparklebabyz, don't remember) as an extra business venture. Is it that she has one area that she does or did the entire arrangement fall through? I mean in all reality, if that is the case, it must have fallen through before it really got started. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:44:03 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: miss mikki is just as bad. She bashed SK and her Mom to death. She has bashed many of her students. BD bashed babies and got caught. Miss Mikki and her group are known for trouble Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 23:51:42 02/05/08 Tue [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Now that is funny since Miss Mikki tells us to use SKs mom PK as a tanner. Where do you get some of this crap? They are friends, ask either of them. As for BD, she NEVER has coached for SBs or Miss Mikki. Author: She was told NO bashing, she bashed, that was the end. [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:15:56 02/06/08 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: miss mikki bashed MP that tanned some of her girls. so why wouldn't she bash PK? so it is true that BD bashed. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:25:50 02/06/08 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Does anyone know if BD has tried to make ammends to the students or their parents? Seems like it would make $ense. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:27:17 02/06/08 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Were you there over the tanning? She wasn't the one bitching, MY MOM WAS. MY DAUGHTER WAS ORANGE WITH STRIPES. THIS WAS AT AMBG in VA. She deserved to get bitched about! Author: Christina! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:35:35 02/06/08 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: No, did't have anything to do w/tanning. Did BD do your daughter's tan? How in the world did she compete? Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:38:16 02/06/08 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: My 2 cents, we have coached with several, are with Ms Mikki now and I have never heard her bash anyone. I have heard her say she didn't like something but never someone, adult or child on a personal level. She is not like that. She is the only one and why we changed to her. I don't know BD but heard she was trouble. Author: Sarah [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 00:49:30 02/06/08 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: That's a shame. We met her at a pageant and she was really sweet to us. Sad to hear so many have had their feelings hurt. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 01:01:36 02/06/08 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Hey STUPID, I BASHED THAT TANNER, not Miss Mikki, check your facts. I asked Miss Mikki to talk to the lady, she did, nothing was done. I WILL BASH HER ANYTIME I CAN, BAD TANNER! As for Pam Kibby, they are friends, why would she bash her? Stop spreading lies. Author: Christina! [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:22:17 02/06/08 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: was it MP for glamour mist? did miss mikkie bash her? I for one will not use BD or miss mikkie if they are like this. seems like they are nothing but trouble and I do not want my kids exposed to things like this. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 12:35:45 02/06/08 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Miss Mikki DID NOT bash her. She asked her if the color would get better. It didn't. My MOM cussed her, it was my child who was one of the orange and stripe kids. Don't blame her for something she didn't do. She asked a Mom if she knew about her tans, that was all, I was standing there fuming by that time. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:31:11 02/06/08 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: BTW Miss Mikki was sick that weekend and really wasn't up and about like normal so can't say she was room hoping bashing, she was in her room with her friend and stayed there most of the weekend. As for BD, don't know, don't care, heard bad things from close friends who have no reason to lie to me. Just don't say Miss Mikki bashed anyone, never heard it ever from her about anyone, certainly not that tanner although she should have. I kind of got ticked she didn't get on her about it. Got over it. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:32:02 02/06/08 Wed [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: if she talked about your kid just quit coaching with her. Everyone knows she is trouble Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 02:16:15 02/07/08 Thu [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: since this lady has been in Ohio we have had bashing. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 08:30:51 02/07/08 Thu [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Again, you think Beth Dearing is NOT a basher, THINK AGAIN!! I would be ashamed to be coached by her!! Author: pageant granny [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 13:39:38 02/07/08 Thu Hello!! can't you take this crap off!!?? BD is a wonderful person and coach - find someone else to pick on! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Have no clue why it's not removed. Two people moved the discussions to archives last night and someone keeps bringing it back up. I think they bring it back up to complain about the people who have had problems w/ BD. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:04:55 02/07/08 Thu [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: BD has problems with many people. She is nothing but trouble and should not be bashing babies. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 17:37:50 02/07/08 Thu [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Again, you think Beth Dearing is NOT a basher, THINK AGAIN!! I would be ashamed to be coached by her!! Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:50:24 02/07/08 Thu stop!! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Again, you think Beth Dearing is NOT a basher, THINK AGAIN!! I would be ashamed to be coached by her!! Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 22:41:00 10/21/09 Wed I know she is a basher and a fraud too. Money for Susan Koman, Right more like money for her. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Stop the Madeness Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 15:52:56 02/07/08 Thu [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Does this lady coach in MI. Author: No name [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 18:41:08 02/07/08 Thu [ Post a Reply to This Message ]