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Subject: Re: Devistated/ False positive


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Theresa H.
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Date Posted: 09:25:20 12/19/00 Tue
In reply to: Staticx_gal 's message, "Re: Devistated/ False positive" on 08:00:27 12/19/00 Tue


Thank you for the advice, it is greatly appreciated.I will concentrate on my marriage and my children, I cannot have fun with this move this is one of the main reasons im stressed and I need to work on marriage about, I dont want to go and he does, and im very uncomfortable about him leaving ahead of me for those four months...Im leaving all of my family and moving to only his...my children are leaving their real father also...Any way thank you so much for your help.....I will try to stay positive...I will just take it day by day and stop all fertility drugs ,and treatments....
Thanks
Theresa






>Theresa.
>
>I am sorry. Remember what I wrote to you
>before...about relaxing and not being so
>stressed...maybe the move or trip is really what you
>need. I am afraid that your obsession with this task
>is unhealthy. I promise you that it will happen but
>this baby is stubborn. It is waiting for the perfect
>time..maybe it is not that time yet.
>
>Strenghen that relationship with the hubby, have fun
>with your move...and start concentrating on the kids
>you already have...their souls may be what the baby
>needs to feel ready!
>
>also answered you on 286.
>
>Staticx_gal
>>
>
>
>>well it was a false positive, I know I shouldnt have
>>gotten my hopes up, but I did it any way... I know you
>>said dont worry and still have faith that it is going
>>to happen, but right now all I feel is defeated.....
>>Im trying to decide what to do next, as soon as I
>>start AF, Im supposed to call the doctor to be put
>>back on the clomid, and do the IUI in January.....
>>should I do this? Or should I just let my body have a
>>break? Im torn with what to do, this will be my last
>>cycle on insurance to pay for all this fertility meds
>>and procedures..... I just want to say to you, thank
>>you for being here for me and supporting me, I dont
>>know what I would do without the love and support I
>>have gotten from you and the others... Thank you so
>>much...with all my heart..
>>love and hugs
>>Theresa
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>>See other message...I read it first...sorry!
>>>
>>>Staticx_gal
>>>
>>>>I have been trying for over five years to have a
>baby
>>>>with my new husband.. I have had three from a
>>previous
>>>>marriage two of them living. My new husband doesnt
>>>>have any children of his own. I had a tubal reversal
>>>>done in 1996 and have had six pregnancies since
>then,
>>>>and lost them all.... We found the problem and are
>on
>>>>fertility meds now and for the life of us cannot
>>>>concieve it has been over a year since our last
>>>>miscarriage. We want more than anything to share
>this
>>>>miracle with eachother and our two kids....Our
>>>>insurance runs out in March, when my husband leaves
>>>>for Texas(we are moving there in June).... Do you
>>>>think that I will achieve a NORMAL pregnancy by
>then?
>>>>We have chosen to give up if we arent pregnant by
>>>>March.... so this is so important to us,and it seems
>>>>like nothing is working for us just against us...I
>am
>>>>desperate.... this really tears me apart..will Me
>and
>>>>my husband ever have a baby together.......Thank you
>>>>so much for everything even if it is just to
>>listen...
>>>>Love and hugs
>>>>Theresa

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