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Staticx
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Date Posted: 07:10:21 05/17/01 Thu
In reply to:
lynn
's message, "old boyfriend" on 16:18:52 05/16/01 Wed
I believe that the reason he left the way he did is because he couldn't face you. He knew that it would hurt you but he was not in love and I see some kind of outside forces making him feel pressured to leave. These forces could be a mother or another woman but I definately see that it was a feminine force.
I think a part of him didn't feel bad at first but as time went by he became saddened at his behavior...You were always so good to him and the way he left you, he knew he had deeply hurt you. He does miss the friendship but knows that his past and what he did to you is unforgivable.
He has moved on. I no longer see any type of connection, spiritually or emotionally.
I am sorry that I can not offer you more clearer details. I am also sorry that you had to go through so much heartache with this ordeal. I am happy for your future and glad that you have been able to move on...a bit. Keep healing and start respecting yourself more.
Staticx
>I put this on the other board, but I don't think
>anyone is going to get to me. The question is about an
>old boyfriend from several years, that left me long
>ago without an explanation or saying goodbye, and
>never spoke to me again. He just took the stuff that
>he left at my house while I was gone, and I never
>heard from him again. There were huge obstacles to our
>being together, and I have always guessed that he just
>did what he felt he had to do, but because of what he
>did, leaving without any explanation, part of me has
>never let go or had closure, and I often wonder what
>really happened that made him feel that he had to
>leave me in such a cruel manner, and how he is doing
>now, and if he ever misses me, or could he not care
>less? I don't want him now, but I really want some
>peace on this issue. It has been several years and I
>find this still haunting me. Can you tell me anything
>about him? About why he left and what happened and how
>he is now? If he hates me, that's fine. I just want to
>know the truth.
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