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Re: Warning...You may not be ready to hear this.

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LadyJJ

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Date Posted: 03:28:59 05/18/01 Fri
In reply to: Staticx 's message, "Warning...You may not be ready to hear this." on 07:48:50 05/17/01 Thu

Thank you, Staticx, this was the honesty that my logical mind knew but needed to hear from someone else. :-) Not having the ability to talk of this with others only made it worse, and I THANK YOU for your kindness and compassion!

JJ

>Part of my promise to my clients is that I be honest!
>I am sorry, most psychics will tell you what you want
>to hear because you will continue to go back to them
>so that your feelings will be validated. I am NOT one
>of those psychics...because I guide you through your
>own life, I have to tell you the truth.
>
>First off, I think that you need to seek counseling
>for this situation and for your marriage. I think
>that there are a lot of things that you need to
>discover about yourself and your husband. Plus, your
>marriage is in jeopardy and has led you to have an
>emotional affair. These are things that can not be
>ignored.
>
>I also do not believe that you were in love with
>Charlie, you were in love with the man you wanted him
>to be and the project that he turned in to. As much
>as you believed you knew this man, you only knew a
>facade.
>
>To answer your questions:
>
>>Is Charlie destined to be nothing more than a
>>predator, and did I have no positive influence on him?
>Charlie is what I like to call a player! Someone who,
>if you will, plays on your emotions and become the
>person you want him to be b/c honestly he does not
>know himself. It is too easy for him to live a lie.
>
>> Did he ever care or have feelings for me? Charlie
>is incapable of these feelings.
>
>How could I have been so wrong about him? This is
>what he wants! This is his master plan. The only
>thing about him that was your soul mate is that you
>showed him the soul were are too afraid to share with
>your husband and others...You were totally honest and
>totally you! This is something others have not had
>the blessed opportunity of seeing. BUT it was YOU who
>was your SOULMATE b/c you shared so much.
>
>Is he what is referred to as a "sociopath," devoid of
>any feelings for others as I fear? Most likely!
>
>Is there any hope that someday he might love me? I
>don't think that this is anything that should be
>pursued! You will always be the one getting hurt.
>
>Please seek counseling.
>
>Staticx

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Re: Warning...You may not be ready to hear this.	Staticx_gal	07:27:33 05/18/01 Fri