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Subject: Re: love relationship

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Staticx_gal

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Date Posted: 12:52:13 01/03/01 Wed
In reply to: kremedy 's message, "love relationship" on 10:33:20 12/31/00 Sun

Well, This is going to be hard for me because I believe that if you know someone is married you make yourself turn away. It is not your place to know what is going on. Also, I think that you would want to know that you were not the rebound or the midlife crisis fix for some guy who is experiencing difficulty. You want someone to love you for who you are...why you keep going after married men should act as a warning sign for you. You are seeking love that is wrong and unavabile...how convienant. You know what I mean.

Know here comes that hard part. I know that you want to believe that both of these men care for you but they don't. The one that has been married a year believed that his feelings were genuine but you were only feeling a void. You were there at some pretty good times but that's it. He will not be married to his current wife more than 2 more years but I hate to tell you...It will not be because of you. He does not love her or you. He is very lost and confused. Don't get hurt in the process.

The next one is a very dangerous situation. I drew a pregnancy card...If the two of you do become involved and do have sex....PROTECT yourself. No matter what he says..You can get pregnant and if you do I promise that you will be alone. Another danger is this...He is in lust with you. You are a very pretty and sexy person...you are a fantasy and he is one of yours...BUT it is ONLY that. It is only a fantasy. You will be throughly disappointed in him and yourself if this relationship continues. I know you believe that he is a friend to you but he is only looking to have sex with you. THAT'S IT! No love EVER will be involved.

I really hate to tell you these things because you really do have a wonderful a decent heart....but you need to start using your head. Hon. You are wonderful..Why can't you see that you are worth more than these sorry men. Move on, leave both.

I do see that you have a marriage card in your future...looks like late 2003 and a baby 2004...BUT this could be caused by transference from what you are doing in your current life. There are so many good things that are going to happen to you IF you make the right decisions. You have it in you to be great.

Staticx_Gal

>I have 2 love interest who are both married. They both are having problems in their marriage. One has been married for 16 yrs and the other 1 yr. I have never been involved with a married man, but I have developed strong feelings for the one married for 16 yrs. We have become good friends and I know that he is basically trying to stay in the marriage for his kids. I'm so confused as to what I should do? I really think I love the one married 16 yrs and as for the other I have not know him for 3 good weeks and he is already talking sex. Can you help?<BR>

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Love and Relations	Barbara	05:40:36 03/05/01 Mon