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Date Posted: Tue, 02/ 4/03 2:45pm
Author: mestiza1woman
Subject: Re: Hello
In reply to: Lupa 's message, "Re: Hello" on Tue, 02/ 4/03 10:49am

I know that no matter how flattering it is to have a couple of guys wanting your attention I know it's still painful to tell them the truth. I'm struggling with that one right now too. Don't want to burn my bridges, but don't want to lead one on just because I can. I don't want to hurt anyone either. I know you'll do the right thing. Wish sometimes I could just come on out and say what needs to be said, guess it will soon enough.

It's good for you to be near your mom and be close to home for yourself. You have your family and friends near you now. You just keep on taking care of yourself and everything will work out as it will.

My son just got back from Tuson. He loved it. He said everyone was staring at him. I said who was all there at that basketball tournament. He said Navajos and Mexicans. They were calling him brother. Saying, you look like me. My son is deaf, so some of this gets muddled in the translation, but he was sooooo happy to see so many other ndns. Now he wants to move there. Yep, he has a girlfriend there now. She's one of the Beltrans. Humm.



>I was thinking the same thing about the ring on the
>finger, the only problem with that is I made up my
>mind to not ever get married again and haven't changed
>my mind about that. But it is tempting, but I know I
>can't treat someone like that because I value truth
>even though the other person hasn't always been
>forthcoming with me. Also D is moving to Indiana in
>April to be closer to his sons. He has been planning
>to this for a while but keeps putting it off. He had
>asked me to move with him but with my health and my
>mother's health, I can't be further away than here in
>Tucson right now. There are too many variables that
>need to be addressed and I will not depend on him, I
>can't afford to. I value my independence too highly,
>my family faults me for that, I just tell them, then
>look at Mom that's where I got it. I'm thinking I
>will have a talk with D about the situation tomorrow
>and see how he reacts and go from there. I am not
>looking forward to it.

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