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Date Posted: Tue, 01/ 7/03 6:11am
Author: chahta_ndn_girl0
Subject: Re: Sinatihawk & OlHump
In reply to: Sinatihawk 's message, "Re: Sinatihawk & OlHump" on Tue, 01/ 7/03 1:22am

>I will be honest with you all.......This is my last
>post,

NOOOOO!!! Sinatihawk... please dont go hon! I know it doesnt seem possible RIGHT NOW, but this will get better! That hurt and anger and disappointment WILL begin to fade, but it WILL take some serious time. What you need now though is to stay in touch with your friends!

Of course I realize that you have more friends than just US, but sometimes you can say to "strangers" what you can't to those that see you and know you a bit better!

If I could give you one piece of advice to help you thru this very difficult time, it would be to give some focus on YOU right now. We women tend to give our most all to our spouses when we are involved in a relationship and not think too much of ourselves. Focus on YOU right now.

When my hubby and I split, luckily only temporarily, one thing I did was re paint our bedroom, and I dont mean just a new splash of color. I painted vines and flowers with smiley faces around my window, I made these funky characters flying across one wall with sayings like "Leap in, your life is waiting!" and "Joy is contagious!" On the wall by the door going out of the bedroom, I painted the speach by Nelson Mandela where he talks of being all that we can, and finally, above the door, in BLOOD RED I painted in HUGE letters "I AM ENOUGH!" Finally, some very girly new sheets and covers and my "ME" inspired bedroom was complete! I needed to feel inspired in the room that I was feeling the most hurt!!

Anyway, my point is, you will survive this, and please let us help!! We care about you and OL Hump too, even though we are virtual strangers, most of us!!

I believe in you!!!

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Replies:

Re: sinati -- tso, Tue, 01/ 7/03 7:04am

Re: sinati -- chahta_ndn_girl0, Tue, 01/ 7/03 7:27am

Re: sinati...............thanks everyone -- Si'na'ti'hawk, Wed, 01/ 8/03 10:03am

Re: sinati -- bow, Tue, 01/ 7/03 11:09am