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Date Posted: Fri, 12/27/02 2:05pm
Author: Sinatihawk
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Re: In the Spirit of Christmas - My A$$
In reply to: CaseynGeneva 's message, "In the Spirit of Christmas - My A$$" on Wed, 12/25/02 11:47am

>Christmas Eve was fun. I started out the day going
>for my examination with the social security disability
>doctor. I'm filing for social security because we are
>way passed broke, and I worry about the stress this is
>causing on my husband. I want to be able to help in
>some way, and there is just no way I'm able to work
>anymore (from the time I was 16, I've always worked
>and supported myself from the age of 18).
>
>So far, it has been a nightmare. Apparently a person
>has to be dead or in a coma in order to qualify for
>social security benefits for medical reasons.
>
>I can't believe how spoiled I've been in my own
>medical care - I have 3 doctors who truly care about
>me and are behind me on this claim. I guess that is a
>blessing I've overlooked -- until yesterday. I've
>never met a more bitter, angry group of people (doctor
>and nurses).
>
>My "exam" included questions like - "What is 6 plus
>4?" Is there a big job market I'm unaware of that
>calls for people who can answer that question?
>
>On to the evening of Christmas Eve. We had not
>planned anything for dinner, so my husband sent my son
>out to get some fast food. Nothing was open.
>
>My son was sitting at a red light in his vehicle on
>his way home, when someone plowed into him from
>behind. He was not injured, but when the cops came,
>the only insurance card he had was expired. He called
>us, and asked that we bring him a current card. Not
>only could we not find the card, my son had taken the
>only set of keys. My husband is sick with the flu at
>the moment, and I really did not want him to walk a
>mile in the cold -- especially if we couldn't find the
>card.
>
>Mind you, this accident wasnt my son's fault -- he
>just didn't have insurance card on him (we are
>insured, he had his license on him, and all the
>necessary registration papers).
>
>My son called a few minutes later from the police
>station. They were putting my son in a holding cell,
>and the officer told us they would release him if we
>coughed up $200 cash -- we didn't have the money. The
>officer called a few minutes later (guess he had a
>change of heart) and told us he was releasing my son
>with an "I-bond" to appear in court at a later date.
>However, he would not allow my son to drive home. He
>had been driven to the police station in the police
>car -- our vehicle is sitting in a bank parking lot.
>My son had to walk home (about a mile) in the
>cold/snow.
>
>I know that worse things happen, but I'm a little
>pissed off at this. I know for a FACT that if it had
>been me in my son's position, I would not have been
>taken to the police station in the police car and
>thrown in a cell for not having a current insurance
>card. I would have just been given the ticket and
>told not to do it again.
>
>Hmmm, I wonder why I would be treated differently??
>
>I just had to blow off some steam - thanks.
>
>Kathy
Hey Kathy.I know what your sayin....reminds me of the O'le sayin when it rains it pours!....Thats just wrong how they did your Son....plain & simple!....Sorry to hear your Christmas was this way lady!.....I understand o' to well how things can go down hill fast. I'm lookin at appling for SSI myself & I've heard the nightmare stories you speak of....I would like to crawl in a cave & stay! But be my luck the cave would have a bear that rests in it ready to kill.

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