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Subject: *Gulp* I could use some advice right now!!

Author:
Pau

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Date Posted: 08:43:52 12/10/02 Tue

Tess, Chris, Kestrel, Regis, Parker...anyone! ok, here it goes...It's a 2-way prob.
I love motocross right? and well, my dad told me (I'm not trying to push my luck) That I could try going to the track and riding once to find out wether it is what i want for myself or not. And for that I'm REALLY grateful cause my mom won't let me, she said HE would take responsibility over whatever happened if i got hurt. And sometimes, I can just push things a bit far, and end up with yet another "NO" so, I really have to talk to Fabian's (A guy who motocrosses) Mom, so Fabian or Sebastian (Fabian's bro) can take me riding once, cause she told me that sebastian gave lessons and all...but the thing is...I have to ask my mom for her phone # and it's gonna be hella hard to get since she thinks im looking for some sort of suicidal activity (Wich I'm certainly NOT!) and won't give it to me. :'( *Cries*

The other one is kinda worse...I kinda fell for a 24 y/o from the bmx practices I've been going to with my cousin...he's sooooo sweet! ya know, one of those guys you just can't help falling for...ya he's perfect...Sweet, good-looking (hehe...six-pack!) nice, loving and all...but like say something happened and he was my bf or "more than a friend" and my parents found out...they wouldn't let me go as far as out the door w/him! but thankfully, he's 24, looks 17 and acts like 13 or something! most of his friends r my age or like 18 or something...he's like a little kid trapped in the body of a man :-S

Well, That's about it...but I've asked some of my closest friends for advice and 3 of them told me to blow him off...the other one told me if i liked him and stuff, that age didn't matter! so now I'm even more confused! plz...I COULD use the help!

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[> Subject: OK, first thing you need to do is...

Author:
Tess
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Date Posted: 12:02:47 12/10/02 Tue

BREATH! lol, it always helps. As far as the motorcross thing goes, I don't really know what to tell u - but what I do when I want to prove I can do something to MY parents, is I go out and do something that takes a lot of responsibility so they trust/respect me more. But I don't know. As far as the guy goes...I've been in similar situations. When I was 13 I liked a 19 year old who liked me also *actually - did I tell you guys about him? i think i just started coming here when that happened - he was my sisters friend* and what I've learned is altho guys can be really really nice, about 95% of guys that are more than like 3 years older than you are usually only in it for one reason. My good friend Jess ended up pregnant at 13, & 14 (first one was a miscarriage) by the same guy. He was nineteen and after the baby was born he left her. I don't know. But maybe you shouldn't take my advice - I'm having guy problems of my own right now. :-\ Franks acting SO weird. *sigh* I don't even want to think about it. I'll talk to y'all later. Good luck Pau!
Love,
Tess

[> [> Subject: ummm...youre in a difficult situation...

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regis
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Date Posted: 11:12:33 01/06/03 Mon

im not sure im the right one to tell ya the answer because MY parents really are overprotective and they ,like, think im 5 year old (grrrrr so desesperating) but i think tess�s advice is good, you really should do something to prove them that you are more responsible, the point is WHAT??? any ideas?
about the guy problem, i think im answering too late dont you? lol, do you still like him now????