My weekend was really good. I went to Olympia and met my girlfriend's Parent's and family. It was nice, they have a nice house and lots of dogs. She's a beauty..I'm lucky. Her family was nice, but asked me alot of questions about my brother and I just froze up, I mean was that really appropriate? -- PEARL JAM!!!

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Date Posted: 04:21:53 03/21/05 Mon
Author: Ruben Kincade
Subject: My weekend was really good. I went to Olympia and met my girlfriend's Parent's and family. It was nice, they have a nice house and lots of dogs. She's a beauty..I'm lucky. Her family was nice, but asked me alot of questions about my brother and I just froze up, I mean was that really appropriate?

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Ruben, did you let them know that you were uncomfortable talking about your brother's death?! What the fuck is wrong with people, it's none of their fuckin business! (NT) -- JA, 07:51:36 03/21/05 Mon
- Wait a minute Jason, maybe the Parent's of his girlfriend thought he wouldn't mind talking about his brother? Some people refuse to NOT stop talking about their deceased child! It might be wise to talk more about your brother Ruben, and please don't tell me to fuck off, mk? (NT) -- Paxcow, 15:09:43 03/21/05 Mon
  - I love talking about my brother, like with you guys and the people who really know me, but meeting a girl's Parent's for the first time and they meet me, I mean really, that shouldn't be a subject for first time meetings. It really froze me up and I had a weird reaction the whole weekend. they are nice people, but too nosy if you ask me. My girlfriend knew it was a bad move on her Parent's side. Pax, I won't tell you to fuck off, but try to see things in my eyes..for once! (NT) -- Ruben Kincade, 04:52:49 03/22/05 Tue
    - You should have said "I'm not really comfortable talking about my brother right now, maybe sometime in the future I will talk about him with you, but for right now I'd like to keep my personal matters to myself"! (NT) -- Cameron Lee, 07:20:18 03/22/05 Tue
      - Hey Ruben, Cam is right, you should have just said that you were not interested talking about your brother's death. MAybe they thought it was all right to talk about it. They shouldn't have talked about him unless you brought him up first. Some people mean well though. (NT) -- KEVIN, 09:41:38 03/22/05 Tue

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