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Date Posted: 17:04:20 01/03/03 Fri
Author: erica
Author Host/IP: 12-231-197-145.client.attbi.com / 12.231.197.145
Subject: One again...
i will try to explain my point of view. laura had no right to come here and say what she did. it was 100% rude, and this has to be said. and also, we had no right to go and say what we did. it was 100% rude, and this has to be said as well.
we stooped down a hundred times lower then laura ever was, and thats why i'm upset. we drove her away by beating her with verbal sticks, and it wasn't fair. we might have said "not to say stuff like that" or stated our opinion, but its an opinion and nothing more.
when she said we were immature we could have disproved it by ignoring her, or saying kindly that she had been rude, but instead we made her right. woofy, you went waaaay over the line, and need to learn to control your "big mouth". and even you, ally, were very harsh. "..and i hope we never see you again". and me, what was i thinking?! i was as harsh as everyone else, and if you have a heart and are as mature as you say you are, you will feel bad too.
i hope you are all happy for what you did. think of it this way: we are a fire, and laura is a person adding fuel. that fire can burn, and spark, and maybe got hot enough to give the person a signal to leave, but here's what our fire did: it burned laura so bad that she never came back. how's that?
i'm ashamed for all of us, and maybe you'll join me in this: we just intended for you to be kinder, and less harsh. and we want you to come back, at least, to ABC and the bc in general. you were a really nice person, and unfortunately i see that we are not.
xoxo, erica
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[> she said she was never coming back, i was just restating it! why should i feel bad for her after what she said?! and why do i keep coming into this when i didn't say anything until after she decided to leave?! isn't it the people who replied to her first message's fault?! -- ally, 17:08:25 01/03/03 Fri (phnxdslgw14PoolC187.phnx.uswest.net/65.101.2.187)
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[> oh, jeez, i knew i shoulda stayed outa this. maybe sue is right to remove posts 'n stuff, because look where "say whatever you want and nobody gets banned" got us? i love this forum, its great! don't get me wrong. its just, see? we're all fighting amongst ourselves. i'm not saying its your FAULT, ally, you're really cool too. she was just leaving this forum on that post, not the bc. thats what i'm saying, too. we all did it, and i just want us to look at ourselves and see what we're doing. -- erica, 17:12:17 01/03/03 Fri (12-231-197-145.client.attbi.com/12.231.197.145)
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