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Subject: Wow

Author:
Eugene

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Date Posted: 12:22:48 04/03/03 Thu
In reply to: slimjim 's message, "Re: You Guys Are Yukky!" on 15:25:39 04/01/03 Tue

Some pretty strong words and generalization here, but since there is no specific personal attack here, there is no need for censorship yet.

I do agree that sex is a part of love between a man and a woman in a committed (I mean, real, dead-serious commitment), oneness relationship. It is, of course, not the only part. I think the "becoming one flesh" rests upon the pillars of being one in emotional, intellectual, spiritual, physical and social/communal dimensions. No one dimension is dominating the wholeness, and no one dimension is "yukky".

The problem is that people who are not really "united" often plunge right into sexuality, and it is hard to come back and deal with other dimensions even if they want to. On this issue I don't blame either of the sexes. It takes two to get there.

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