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Subject: Re: test out the nature vs. nurture debate


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Dr. G
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Date Posted: 19:57:22 02/11/01 Sun
In reply to: Kathryn Maguire 's message, "Re: test out the nature vs. nurture debate" on 15:46:16 02/11/01 Sun

>On the subject of selective mutism:
>My first year teaching in a public Pre-K in CT I had a
>male student who would not speak to adults in any
>capacity besides his mother. (?!) He was active and
>talkative with peers but would not even respond to any
>of the teachers, the nurse, the director, social
>workers psychologists, or his own aunts/uncles. The
>most we could get him to do is nod yes or shake his
>head no. When he thought the teachers were not paying
>attention, he would have animated and boisterous
>conversations with classmates. When he would discover
>the teacher was watching or listening, he would
>immediately stop. He was observed as being generally
>unhappy and non-participatory. In the spring of the
>school year, he had begun family therapy because his
>mom had approached one of our social workers and
>expressed that she was having trouble dealing with her
>anger towards him. (a-ha, increasing the idea that
>maybe he was being abused in my mind..) There was also
>some occasional unexplainable bruising. It was to the
>point where he would be served a hot lunch and would
>not speak up if he did not get a fork, spoon and
>consequently simply sit there and not be able to eat
>the lunch until one of us noticed that he did not
>receive utensils. The therapist elicited my help in
>filling in how he was in the classroom but
>unfortunately she and the mom did not get along and
>the therapy ended. (?) There were times that if his
>mom was running late in picking him up, he would pace
>back and forth. He also threw tantrums when his uncle
>(again odd) came to pick him up. He never threw
>tantrums otherwise.
>He left our class in June and I never was able to find
>out how he developed in Kindergarten. Since then I
>have run across other selective mutes. Possibly
>something was happening or happened (nurture) in this
>boy's home/relationship with mom where speaking to
>others was dangerous or scary.
Great post! well worth discussing. I look forward to the class getting into this one
THanks!

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