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Subject: Re: This is bugging me, anyone know the answer?

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Meghan

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Date Posted: 07:49:10 07/24/01 Tue
In reply to: Pam 's message, "This is bugging me, anyone know the answer?" on 01:00:06 07/24/01 Tue

Jeff is right, Mark7 was around long before Lynn came. They did hit it off right away, but that was easy to figure out - Mark's old sawhorse used to be (and still is, to some degree) that a woman who is really into sex is more likely to be a loving and giving person in a relationship.

Of course, it's not as simple as that. Instead, it depends on the reasons the person is as into sex as they are. I'll never believe that the interest and talk of a woman who had - not one - but *two* men in past relationships lose interest in her sexually is about anything but filling a whole different kind of emotional need within herself. So, Mark couldn't see past Lynn's overt and regular sexual behavior on the boards to realize that her flirtatiousness with him was only about winning him over and validating herself - not due to any true love of sex, or any genuine liking for him as a person.

With her it was always more about who she could get to like her, not who *she* liked. In reality, she'd be the first to turn emotionally irrational on someone and use sex as a weapon if she wasn't getting her needs for attention met.

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[> [> Subject: This is bugging me, give me your answer?

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Mark7
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Date Posted: 20:25:48 08/02/01 Thu

What was your sawhorse Meghan. I've been reading your posts for years now, and I still fail to see any point in them.

At least Paula's points were clear, although wrong.

No man who's married and cheats has any excuse, specially if he's liberal, and not conservative as she is.

But aside from the small talk about movies and such, did you ever had a point, wrong or right, ever?