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Date Posted: 13:20:32 02/02/02 Sat
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Subject: 孝順要及時

有一隻小青蛙﹐老是和媽媽唱反調﹐媽媽教他往東﹐他偏要往西﹔媽媽教他往西﹐他偏偏往東。有一天﹐青蛙媽媽知道自己快要死了。她喜歡住在山上﹐不喜歡住在水邊。因為小青蛙常和青蛙媽媽唱反調﹐ 所以青蛙媽媽交代兒子把她葬在水邊。平常不聽話的小青蛙突然良心發現﹐聽從媽媽的話﹐就把媽媽葬在水邊。黃昏時﹐擔心媽媽會寂寞﹐就在水邊哇哇叫。下雨時﹐擔心媽媽被水沖走﹐也在水邊哇哇叫。媽媽在世的時候不聽話﹐死後再來傷心﹐難過得哇哇叫己經來不及了。

現代的社會﹐愈來愈不注重孝道倫理了﹐尤其所謂“代溝”的問題﹐越發使得現代人的“親子關係”更為疏遠﹑淡薄。你看﹐醫院裡的老人病房與兒童病房裡﹐“孝順的父母”很多﹐但是“孝順的兒女”很少。所謂“久病床前無孝子”﹐兒女不但平時難得到醫院探望父母﹐更別說在病塌前的關懷﹑照顧了。

再說﹐現代父母平時接送兒女上學﹐日日月月﹑歲歲年年﹐無怨無尤﹔但是兒女偶而陪父母到醫院看病﹐一次﹑二次﹐他就不甘﹑情不願的嫌煩了﹐好像對父母有天大的恩惠一般。台灣“三代碗”的故事﹐所謂“記得當初我養兒﹐我兒今又養孫兒﹔我兒餓我由他餓﹐莫叫孫兒餓我兒。”真是否憐天下父母心啊﹗

在南海普陀山有一個屠夫﹐是一個不孝子﹐平時事母極為忤逆。有一天他也跟人到普陀山朝拜﹐他聽說普陀山有活觀音﹐就到處向人詢問。有個老和尚告訴他說﹕“活觀音己經到你家中去了。” 他匆匆趕回家中﹐母親跟他說﹕”堂前雙親你不孝﹐遠廟拜佛有何功﹖“

孝順父母不要等到百年﹐在世時就要孝順。魏晉南北朝時﹐晉武帝下令要召請李密當太子的老師﹐但是他說﹕”臣盡節於陛下之日長﹐報養劉氏之日短也﹗“ 這正是說明﹔孝順父母要及時﹐千萬不要到了”樹欲靜而風不止﹐子欲養而親不待“﹐豈不是要像小青蛙一樣﹐在水塘邊哇哇的叫個不停嗎﹖

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