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Date Posted: 00:33:42 05/23/02 Thu
Author: 人o地個妹
Subject: 家姐牌吸皮大法~~~~~~呵~今次晌家姐度吸返來添呀﹗哈﹗哈﹗

。。一條吸皮大法。。

所謂"自由自在";別給自己「死線」


米蘭昆德拉有一本書叫「生活在他方」,我對這五個字有很好的聯想,我們的生活總是在遠方,都在想:如果明天我有錢,我就可以。。。

但是如果你現在賺少錢不快樂,就算你有再多的錢我保證你也不會快樂;如果你一個人的時候不會自得其樂,即使嫁了人,娶了老婆,"人"跟你一起,一樣不快樂;如果現在不懂得享生活,未來也不會享受生活。有人問什麼叫做自由,所謂的自由就是:你想要拒絕一個人的約會,已經不需要任何理由,你有權力過自己要過的生活,有權力去自己要去的地方。

其實生活很簡單。男人跟女人都很喜歡在自己的人生設一個 deadline,比如說:我 25 歲一定要結婚,26 歲一定生孩子,30 歲時一定要一男一女,31 歲的時候一定要有房子,所以很多決定就很草率。如果剛開始你找的那個人就不對,往後再怎麼努力都不對;有時候我們常常會覺得婚結了,所有問題就沒了,那如果結了婚還有問題,就趕快把小孩生一生,其實你的問題在這個階段沒解決,在下階段只會變大;你對未來不用期待太多,期待太多。。。

老實說,挫折感會很深,不如看看你現在做什麼事情,會讓你覺得很自在,吸收到很多的東西,那個時候你才會覺得人生真的很充實。

另外,一個人如果太努力在活給別人看,那就會痛苦得不得了,今天如果你相信自己做得還不錯,不在乎別人怎麼看你的時候,你真的可以很自在。

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