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Subject: 因此要從多角度思考問題並決定自己的價值觀念以何者為先


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公仔佬
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Date Posted: 02:24:07 04/27/03 Sun
In reply to: 小羊 's message, "問公佬" on 01:54:44 04/27/03 Sun

第一、不要叫我公佬,冇晒親切惑。

第二、治國之道,誰說只有行仁政和走極權兩個選擇?以聖芳濟為例,它是行仁政、還是走極權?

第三、考慮一個問題,我常對同學說,可試從道德、人情、宗教、知識、權威、法律、傳統、風俗、經濟、客觀條件限制、自己的主觀感受、可行性、操作手法等角度去考慮問題,選擇取捨,纔作出自己的決定。當然,在眾多的角度中,一定會有一些角度你會置它於首選,這就是你的價值觀,最後會統合成你的人生觀。就因為每一個人的價值觀和人生觀不一樣,所以人與人之間會有很多意見衝突,這是不欲發生而又無可避免的。因此,既然我們必須和不同價值觀和人生觀的人一起學習、工作和生活的話,便需學會一套「和而不同」的技巧,在解決問題時,在既保留自己的看法的同時,也學會尊重人家的意見,力求取長保短,集思廣益,盡快取得共識。總不成天天跟人家對罵而又不能把問題解決吧!

這些道理,說起來容易,做起上來相當困難。我每一天還在摸索和力求自我完善中呢!以上只是我的體會,大家不妨說說你們的看法。我仍是這一句,看待人生的問題是很難簡單地用一個「對」或「錯」的二分法所能涵蓋的。

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