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Subject: Re: Just Showing Up Author: Kyla [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 17:29:14 09/20/01 Thu In reply to: carrie 's message, "Re: Just Showing Up" on 09:16:05 09/20/01 Thu Dear Carrie, that is the hardest place for me too. Honey, don't expect yourself to love them. If you only keep sometimes in mind that all they are doing is defending themselves from knowledge of the wound, that alone is serving. And, I feel, to be fed up with the blindness and denial is only good! This is truly a time of no right answers, and that is the most challenging condition of all. much love, Kyla [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]