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Subject: *Breathes in deeply.* I'm calm now. *Flexes fingers* I decided to look over the old posts about this little situation, and came up with a conclusion. >


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Squeaky
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Date Posted: 13:10:34 05/19/01 Sat

I know by now you wont want to hear anymore of this, but I think that this should be posted.

Grey, you and the others attacking you are both right, and both wrong, equally.

My Conclusion
It was good thinking that you needed another mythical to help you rule the mythical side, and Calliope was an excellent choice for it, but there were some problems in it.
First of all, DOL needed to be informed. (I'm not sure if Malussinn needed to be, but DOL certainly did.)

Second, and the most important. The mythical side needed to be informed. And so did Posy and her family. Crowning and decrowning is a big thing Grey, and not something that only the King or Queen can control.

Something I like to keep in mind is, without subjects, you can not have a King or Queen.

What I mean is, you may be King of the Mythicals, but the unicorns/pegasi/centaurs/unisus and others of the mythical section are the ones who form it.


So mainly what I'm trying to say is that it was wrong for you not to ask the approval for this change before you put it in action.

But they did some wrong things (so did I). We should have looked at the situation before we attacked you. We should have respected your decision, and questioned it.
But this event has been against their decision for you to be King, you must understand that they need to trust you.

They need to trust that you will ask them for their opinions, even if you think they are worthless. They need to know that you are a caring, not a ruthless leader.


Grey, they need a King who cares about them and their emotions and feelings.

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"I'm a little annoyed that you think I don't, actually. But I could no longer stand having a Queen who was not there, for whatever reason. I decided to make the switch and then consult them, because at least in the meanwhile there would be someone else there. All right?" (NT)Grey14:17:34 05/19/01 Sat



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