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Date Posted: 14:46:49 05/20/03 Tue
Author: Eurydice
Author Host/IP: 141.154.26.96
Subject: Not so much backlash, as just plain lash
In reply to: sassette 's message, "Definitely more excited than sad . . . the wildfeed gave me chills (spoilers)" on 12:45:31 05/20/03 Tue

Those who are disappointed in the finale have been expressing that disappointment for quite some time - not just in the finale but in the entire season. Their opinions have been, for the most part, well reasoned and well expressed and are no more rooted in emotion and expectation that those who are enjoying the finale.

No need to worry about anybody else's views but your own - you like it, great. Others don't, that's fine too. The writers can take the heat - that's why they get paid the big bucks. :)

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[> [> I do understand, I just don't like it :) -- sassette, 15:03:01 05/20/03 Tue (141.213.136.140)

I've been away from fan boards for almost two years now, generally, because I've found that bitterness has become the expected response to any plot development, and that people who actually like the show or even discussion about aspects of the show are totally shut out by posts about how terrible the show is now. I'm just not seeing it, and I don't think it represents most fans, but a very small faction of the fan population who don't like the developments 1) with Spike and 2) that have separated the "Core Four" and are *extremely* vocal about their dissatisfaction.

Even when the Spike debates of S5 were at their peak, people at least expressed positive ideas about the show and positive voices weren't either dismissed or drowned out. But (and I think this is largely due to TWoP and the way the attitude over their, both towards the show and towards other posters, have infested other fan boards, but I could be wrong), now bitterness is the trend and, as a non-bitter viewer, I don't think it's a particularly welcome atmosphere. So, I do understand how you feel, but I feel a bit upset that so much bad feeling has infected the fan boards.


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[> [> [> I don't think I'm particularly bitter -- Eurydice, 15:49:57 05/20/03 Tue (141.154.26.96)

I was only pointing out that there shouldn't be a fear of backlash because the disappointment has always been there.

You're right that general bitterness has little value other than to create a poisonous atmosphere, but I don't think that it springs from nowhere. There've been some valid concerns this season about lack of coherence and continuity - maybe it's because I'm a writer, but I find that when something doesn't make sense to the audience, it's usually because it just plain doesn't make sense. And I believe that the general aura of dispair and negativity on the show itself for the past two years has also added to the fans' mood. Even the most polly among us has found it hard to keep smiling - and there are only so many "Why I love Buffy" threads that can be started before the whole thing is of no more value than bitterness.

Even so, we've figured out how to have some wonderful times on this board - we've got an angst-free place for shippiness, lots of silliness, and some great philosophical debates - most recently through Ramses' daily POC thread. Even those who've pretty much given up on the show cherish the friends and good times they have here.


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[> [> Re: Not so much backlash, as just plain lash -- JMH, 16:25:59 05/20/03 Tue (208.42.19.108)

Sassette -- was nice to see your name posting again & I just wanted to say that I SO agree w/everything you said. The pros of this show have so very much outweighed the cons -- hells-bells, with what passes for television programming nowadays, I'm thankful we got 7 seasons from a quality show now going out in style. Like I tell my kids, negativity exists everywhere at every level & many many people take it with them into adulthood. I'm going to miss this show terribly.


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