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Date Posted: 22:47:53 03/02/04 Tue
Author: kel
Author Host/IP: 65.93.17.221
Subject: Re: advice?
In reply to: nouseforaname 's message, "advice?" on 11:05:53 02/17/04 Tue

>I was really interested in a guy whom I had talked to
>on the internet. We had an amazing conection and
>everything seemed to be going well. We both want to
>be together, but distance is a problem. However, we
>made a online date for Saturday gone, but he said he
>was going out. Which was fine, last night he told me
>he went on a date, and he was sorry. He udnerstood if
>I would never talk to him again. I want to kno what
>to do, should I talk to him........or do you think he
>will continue to lie to me. He said he wasnt sure
>about this girl but he was sure about me, but we still
>have distance corrupting this relationship. Should I
>just move on and not care? I dont want to get hurt in
>another relationship like i usually do. My ex lied to
>me, after 6 months, the one before that cheated on me
>afetr 2 years and left me for her. So please any
>advice at all would be great, thanks :D

Move on. Don't be his doormat just so he can get action from two women at once. I don't know how old you are, but these are NOT the sort of guys you want in your life. This seems to be a pattern in your relationships...maybe you subconsciously letting them get away with it? If you continue to let this new guy feed you lines like "he's sure about you," then he's getting away with it to. He'll continue to lie to you, take my word for it. You deserve MUCH better than that.

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