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Date Posted: 15:34:02 09/03/04 Fri
Author: iris
Subject: 釘子

釘子
****

有一個男孩有著很壞的脾氣,
於是他的父親就給了他一袋釘子,並且告訴他,
每當他發脾氣的時候就釘一根釘子在後院的圍欄上。

第一天, 這個男孩釘下了三十七根釘子。
慢慢地每天釘下的數量減少了。他發現控制自己的脾氣
要比釘下那些釘子來得容易些。

終於有一天,這個男孩再也不亂發脾氣。
他告訴他的父親這件事,父親告訴他,現在開始每當
他能控制自己的脾氣的時候,就拔出一根釘子。

一天天地過去了,最後男孩告訴他的父親,
他終於把所有的釘子都拔出來了。

父親握著他的手來到後院說:『你做得很好,我的好孩子。
但是看看那些圍欄上的洞,這些圍欄將永遠不能回復成從前。
你生氣的時候所說的話,將像這些釘子一樣留下疤痕,
如果你拿刀子捅別人一刀,不管你說了多少次對不起,
那個傷口將永遠存在。話語的傷痛就像真實的傷痛一樣,
令人無法承受。』

人與人之間,常常因為一些彼此無法釋懷的堅持,
而造成永遠的傷害。如果我們都能從自己做起,
開始寬容地看待他人,相信你一定能收到許多意想不到的結果…...
別人開啟一扇窗,也就是讓自己看到更完整的天空。

(引自經濟日報 2-9-2004副刊)

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