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Date Posted: 20:25:27 02/04/05 Fri
Author: Donna Lemley
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Subject: Re: New puppy - Deaf?
In reply to: Kristin 's message, "Re: New puppy - Deaf?" on 18:42:18 02/04/05 Fri

Thanks Kristin! I thought that was the problem.

Lola is only 7.5 weeks old. So I think she's too young to have either bladder control or object permanence development. But she does have a strong desire not to soil the crate. (Even to the point of eliminating through the bars so the waste goes outside the crate).

I stuffed the Kong with Iams puppy food (the mushy stuff). I wasn't sure what else would be good for such a little puppy. Do you have any suggestions?

Lola only weighs two pounds, but she can bark really LOUDLY. Also, the crate bark is a high pitched panic rather than her usual pay attention to me bark. One early morning she had managed to hang her foot in the bars of the crate, so it's really hard for me to ignore. It is much more of a distress cry than a bark. I also think the panic is caused by not being able to hear and only knowing we are still alive and will come back if she can see us. She has another "I'm lost" bark that she uses when she wakes during the day. When I'm at home during the day she naps on her dog bed in the kitchen. Upon waking she goes to my office and sits under my chair quietly until I notice her. If I don't notice quick enough, she starts to pull on my pants leg. If I'm not in the chair she'll bark until I come to her. This is one of the reasons I think she's deaf. Twice I have been in the kitchen or living room talking on the phone but out of her sight when she woke up. Even though I call to her she walks straight to the office and calls for me.

The real problem with the crate screaming is that I have a school age daughter who cannot sleep during the rampage and a husband who gets up very early to teach and is very grumpy about the disruption. Neither one of them do well with less than 8 hours of sleep. I can make it on 5 with no problem, so I'm sacrificing for them, but as we discussed training the dog to continue the misbehavior in the process. I have her crate as far away from the bedrooms as is possible and every door is shut. But the wake up in the middle of the night scream is so very loud and frantic and increases in volume as it continues that no one can get any sleep at all. I've tried putting the crate by the bed, but all that does is bring the racket closer. To give you an example of how loud it is, today I had put Lola (sleeping) into the crate because I had to leave to go to my daughter's school for an hour. The crate was in the house, and all the door were shut. I could still hear the screaming when I pulled into the driveway in my closed van with the AC and radio running BEFORE I opened the garage door, much less walked into the house. There is no way ANYONE could sleep through this and after half an hour my daughter is in tears, my husband is very grouchy and I'm in tears. Getting Lola to sleep in the crate to begin with is no problem. It's getting her back to sleep if she awakes during the night. Any ideas for getting her to sleep longer? Should I be feeding her earlier? Or something else? Thanks so much for your help. I'm feeling a bit desperate! I'm going on two weeks of very little sleep and we're all feeling a little overwhelmed with the idea that our beloved Lola is deaf. We'll adjust with time and I know everything will be fine. I'm actually glad that we chose her rather than one of her siblings because I know she'll be loved and cared for with us and I'm worried about what would have become of her with someone else. The recommendations for what to do with deaf puppies that I found on the first few websites was appaling! Finding this site with lots of people with positive things to say really helped. It also looks like you have had quite a bit of experience and are willing to share with those of us who are unsure of what to do. I really appreciate it!

I did get a lead on a trainer who has worked with a deaf dog before today at the local pet store. The lady I talked with wasn't sure if he was still in the area but gave me the information she had. I'm going to see if I can locate him tomorrow.



>Hi Donna,
>Actually, you've sort of answered the crate issue
>yourself. By going back to your dog after she
>pitches a fit in the crate at night, what is she
>learning? The more often you do this, the more
>difficult it will be to break this behavior. She is,
>in effect, training you very well.
>You say letting her bark isn't an option. Well,
>actually it's your only option. You're just going to
>have to put up with it for a few weeks, until the
>behavior extinguishes due to lack of reward.
>Returning to her crate is her reward. This behavior
>will only get worse until you determine NEVER to
>return to her crate while she's pitching a fit. Even
>returning occasionally will be reward enough to keep
>the fit going.
>You don't mention how old Lola is. If she's over,
>say, eight months old, she should be able to hold her
>bladder all night. By pitching a fit when she wakes
>up, she's also training you to come to her crate to
>let her out. Then she gets what she wants...You! If
>she's old enough, I wouldn't let her out of the crate
>when she wakes up. Yes, there's a chance she really
>does need to go out, but the worse thing that will
>happen is she'll soil her crate. Better that then
>continually training you to come when she throws a
>fit. If, however, she continually soils her crate,
>then you must get up to let her out. She really does
>need to do that.
>Something else to try, in case she really is scared
>when she wakes up, is to put her crate in your
>bedroom, positioned so she can see you all sleeping.
>My deaf Sheltie's crate is right next to my bed. When
>he wakes up at night, he can see me sleeping, and he
>knows I haven't left him - a fear he has. He goes
>back to sleep. Because I'm a light sleeper, I've had
>to get a soft-sided crate with a sheepskin mat to keep
>the crate noise down. This works well for him.
>He has always had huge crate issues because he can't
>hear me in the other room. I found he didn't develop
>"object permenance" (ie. if mom leaves the room -
>she's a permenant object and will return. She hasn't
>fallen off the face of the earth) until much later
>than my hearing puppies. Because of this, he would
>get very frightened when I would leave the room and
>leave him in his crate where he couldn't follow me.
>This fear lingers for him, I think, and sometimes his
>crate issues reappear.
>When he was a puppy, his crate manners were so bad
>that I had to put him on the opposite end of the house
>from the bedrooms. I shut ever door between him and
>me that I could. I would put him in his crate at
>night, and he'd just throw a fit. I'd put in a Kong,
>stuffed with something VERY good (what are you
>stuffing your Kong with?), and then I'd go to bed.
>He'd finish the Kong in about 20 minutes, and the
>barking would begin. He'd sometimes bark for an hour.
> I never returned.
>Over time (and yes, this took months), the barking
>went from an hour to about 10 minutes. Then, I moved
>him to a room next to mine, so I could hear at night
>if he was in distress. I don't normally like my dogs
>to sleep away from my bedroom. I want to know if
>they're in trouble during the night. His barking got
>a little worse with the change of habit, but soon, he
>was back to Kong for 20 minutes then 10 minutes of
>After another couple of months, his barking was pretty
>minimal, so I moved him into my bedroom. He doesn't
>bark, ever, now during the night.
>When you take on the responsibility of a dog, it does
>sometimes mean sleepless nights for the whole family.
>This is what must be done to train the dog. If you do
>not, the dog's behavior will only get WORSE.
>As far as the biting goes, this may be normal puppy
>biting, depending on the age of your dog. However,
>just because it's normal, doesn't mean we shouldn't
>train it away. I've found the best method is when the
>puppy bites (and usually this is during play or
>petting), your play or petting stops. You just
>IMMEDIATELY quit, make a no sign and walk away. You
>can resume playing in a couple of minutes, if you'd
>like, but only resume playing if it's your idea. This
>will probably take care of the situation, because the
>puppy will find that biting isn't rewarding.
>However, sometimes the above doesn't work. If in two
>weeks of CONSISTANT (that means EVERY time the puppy
>bites ANYONE in the household, the above is done)
>training the puppy isn't showing any signs of
>improvement, write back, and I'll give you more ideas.
>Everyone in the house must do this, everytime, or it
>won't work. If you're not consistant, then anyother
>system won't work either.
>I'm pleased you're looking into a trainer. Check out
>your local Petsmarts. Some Petsmart trainers are good
>- others not so good. Talk to the trainers there and
>see what experience they have aside from the training
>they get at Petsmart. See if they do doggie training
>activities away from the store (like showing in
>performance events), and see what experience they had
>before becoming a Petsmart trainer. Some Petsmarts
>hire their most outgoing cashiers or groomers to train
>who don't have any previous dog training experience.
>Some Petsmarts hire great dog trainers with loads of
>previous experience. Check it out.
>Good luck. Keep us updated on how it goes and what
>trainer you've found.
>We have a new Boston Terrier, Lola and I think she may
>>be deaf. She doesn't respond to voices at all and
>>seems oblivious to noise. The only responses we've
>>gotten to our at home hearing tests seem to be related
>>to vibration or movement more than sound. I'm taking
>>her to the vet next week to see what he says.
>>In the meantime, I'm having trouble with two issues,
>>barking at night and biting. I'm not good at training
>>animals. Our last Boston was managable, but I think
>>she trained me more than I trained her. So I really
>>need some guidance. I know that without being able
>>to hear there are extra considerations and the margin
>>for error is different and I really don't want to mess
>>up here....
>>At night we put her in a crate. Some nights she
>>sleeps fine until 5:30 or so. I then get up take her
>>out to the bathroom, play, get her some breakfast, and
>>move on with our day. Our usual wake up time is 6,
>>so 5:30 is fine. Other nights she wakes up at 1 or
>>2, yelping in a high panic. I get up take her
>>outside then try to get her back in the crate. She
>>goes into high panic whenever I put her back in the
>>crate. I've tried putting her to sleep by holding her
>>before I put her back in, but she wakes as soon as I
>>take my hands off of her. I've also tried giving her
>>treats, a kong to play with, clothing that smells like
>>us, putting a blanket over her crate, basically
>>everything I've found suggested in books or on
>>websites. Nothing seems to work. With our last
>>dog, I just put the crate in the laundry room, turned
>>off the light and let her bark for a minute. When I
>>didn't come back she'd settle in and go back to sleep.
>> With Lola, she just gets more frantic, barking for
>>over half an hour, waking everone in the house and
>>making us all miserable. We've never managed to wait
>>it out long enough for her to go back to sleep. I
>>always give in so that the rest of the family can rest
>>and wind up sitting dozing in the recliner with her in
>>my lap until I give up at 4 or 5 and make coffee. I
>>know this isn't the way to go and I'm letting her win,
>>but I don't know what else to do. Letting her bark
>>and keeping the whole family up isn't an option. Any
>>suggestions on how to help her quiet herself?
>>Also, she sometimes bites too hard and isn't
>>responding to "no". I usually get her to stop by
>>giving her a chew toy to bite on but it feels like
>>maybe I'm accidentally rewarding her with the toy and
>>encouraging the biting rather than discouraging it.
>>The other biting problem is that whenever any family
>>member lays down on the floor Lola views it as an
>>invitation to attack. She bites noses and ears HARD
>>and growls and snaps. I've told my family to quit
>>laying on the floor around her, but it seems like I'm
>>training the family and not the dog. What should I
>>be doing?
>>I feel incompetent and lost. I am looking for
>>trainers in our area, but haven't found anyone so far.
>> Any suggestions on what to do until I find someone,
>>would be really appreciated.

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