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Date Posted: 11:52:05 10/30/03 Thu
Author: Joanne
Subject: I don't think there is anything wrong with you or the child....m
In reply to: Breneman 's message, "I've been gone for a few days...... (current preg mentioned)" on 09:36:25 10/30/03 Thu

This is the protective part that we do to ourselves to enable us not to feel the pain that we believe is inevitably coming. It is so common in subsequent pgs that I've never met a woman in your shoes who hasn't felt that way at all. They normally do nothing to bond with it or choose a name until after 32 wks - and a few have waited until the birth itself.

I am not going to say to relax - you know it is something you have to consciously work at - but I will say that your baby will feel a lot more than you think it will. Take some time to just stop worrying about why you feel the way you do, allow yourself to voice the fears that you have and at least understand that there isn't likely a woman out there that wouldn't feel the same way you do right now.

Be good to yourself - take care of that hole in your mouth - I'll keep you in my prayers. And try not to be upset - give your special belly a rub from me. You are so blessed to be carrying a spirit from Heaven!

J

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