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Date Posted: 12:33:40 09/24/03 Wed
Author: Sheila
Subject: Oh Marie....I can see where those feelings would come from.(m)
In reply to: plaidwallaby 's message, "well," on 09:55:58 09/24/03 Wed

There are so many times when I feel like everyone has forgotten Matthew. Yes he died 4 1/2 years ago.... But with Dominic only being gone a few years you wonder why your family at not showing more sorrow at this great loss of your son! **sigh** I can see how hard that would be to have the day he passed so close to 9/11. Isn't your loss just as painful(or more!!) as the people lost that day?

How I wish that we could educate people more about how hard it is to lose a child.....regardless of how old the child was.

(((HUGS))) and I hope that you know that you can come here anytime for love and support AND to talk about Dominic any time you want. HUgs~~~Sheila

p.s. I have always felt close to your sweet Dominic because our birthday is on the same day!!

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[> [> [> [> OH Marie, I'm sorry the world seems to have forgotten Dominic -- lynece, 09:50:09 09/25/03 Thu

It makes the pain of losing him so much harder. I used to think that if only my baby had lived then peopple would remember him more and he would "count" to them. Unfortunately, as I've learned from you and other mommies, that is doesn't seem to matter when our babies die, the world just keeps on going and expects us to as well.

I do know from my own mother that she really hasn't forgotten my son, but just can't talk about it for some reason. Maybe your mother is like that as well. It doesn't excuse her behavior, but it might help to understand her. usually when people don't know what to say, they don't say anything. And if they only knew that hurts us more than talking about our angels.

I hope you feel better and that the bitterness will ease for you.

And like Sheila said, you are always welcome to talk about Dominic here. We will not forget him!
Love, Lynece


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