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Date Posted: 21:32:06 01/31/04 Sat
Author: 仙
Subject: 沒完沒了
In reply to: 仙 's message, "有時候覺得,快樂係天生的。" on 21:00:32 01/31/04 Sat

睡覺之前,跟艾絲談論著一連串的問題,
(基本上只要我和她都在909的話,沒有一個晚上是不談話的。
不明白為何見得那麼多,都還有那麼多話可以說。)
還談論到人生呢,(好嚴肅的話題!)然而每一次的結論令人感覺迷茫。

想起很多,記得年多前某人問我:「有沒有一些事,是覺得一定要做好,一定要做得完美的呢?」

想了一會,還來不及回答,已經有了回應:「要諗,就即係無啦。」

我相信完美主義者都不是快樂的人,然而藝術家大多都是完美主義者,
因此大多數藝術家都不是快樂的人。

凡事都要求完美,但沒有可能是甚麼都完美的,
更何況即使已經夠好了,他們還是覺得不夠好,
應該要再好。
最後失望,傷心,不快樂。

喜歡問朋友,想做張國榮定係譚詠麟?
張國榮永遠英俊瀟灑,不羈,要求完美,有生活態度,
演藝生涯水準不變,總之一個字就係「型」。
譚詠麟,本人相信他已經沒有甚麼魅力,卻還要開演唱會,
相信看的人為緬懷過去青春歲月多於欣賞他現時的唱腔。
閒時與其他麻甩朋友打golf...

然而一個抑鬱症自殺身亡,一個相信還會愉快地生活下去。
當然堅持理想不讓自身墮落,即使代價多大,別為五斗米節腰...

好像快樂與理想並不掛鉤,但兩樣都是我們追尋的吧。


你有一定要做好,一定要做完美的事情嗎?

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