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Date Posted: 24/03/04 20:56
Author: 家玉
Subject: 對24.03.2004 「不言」一文有感

我一直都很喜歡讀你的專欄，因為我覺得你充滿生命力，有正面的人生觀，更教學生要當好人，每天讀你的文章，使我更有衝勁去迎接每一天。

讀你的文章「不言」，真的很有同感，當別人心情不好，很多人的即時反應是「別這樣吧」、「你這些可真是小事嘛，忘記它好了」……等等，否定別人的情緒，只是令別人心情變得更壞，更不願把心事跟別人分享，學過輔導的人都知道，必須要有「同理心」，我就是你，設身處地的去感受你的痛苦，這就會理解別人的苦況，接納別人的想法，進而諒解和鼓勵別人，這才會對絕望的人有所幫助。

雖然不是人人都學過輔導技巧，但如果懂得將心比己的話，我相信人人都可以當一個很好的聆聽者呢。

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