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Date Posted: 23/11/03 18:34
Author: Jacob
Subject: Re: 找工作困難
In reply to: Winniecat 's message, "Re: 找工作並不困難" on 22/11/03 22:20

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Family may not know what to say. A lot of people may think pushing you harder may be an "encouragement" to you. They may be trying to "encourage" you but in a wrong way. I believe you must have tried your best to find a job.

It is a bad feeling when someone asks you to work harder when in fact you have done all you can.I believe most families are willing to help and you can count on them. Don't mind what they say. They may not mean to hurt you.

Don't blame yourself for your bad luck. You are not alone and you are not the most unfortunate.

Don't feel bad about receiving help from family. It is a bliss for your family members having a chance to help you. It is a good feeling for your family member, not a bad one. You should trust them. There are some debt that you can never possible to repay in full. Even if you have paid the principal sum with interests, one is still indebted to his/her family his/her whole life. That's family. They want you to be happy. Don't feel ashame for that. Most important is to consider how to make them happy. If you are happy and healthy, they are happy.

It takes time and patience to cook some cat noodles and wait for a new mouse hole with constant mice supply.

Don't work too hard. It is counter productive to keep thinking about job. You need to have off-office time and forget about job seeking. Think about job matters when you need to send resume, which takes around one hours a day. In other time, forget about job hunting. Play, read, eat and sleep well. You will know what to do next naturally when time comes or mouse comes.

Live a cat's life and watch out for gaining weight like Garfield. Watching aerobic dance in TV won't help.

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