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Date Posted: 15:51:51 02/20/08 Wed
Author: Jen
Subject: I am LIVID, upset....what to do?!?

Here's a conversation between my ex's girlfriend and myself through email....What do you think? Should I do something about this?

ME: Just wanted to let you know that the kids March Break from school is the second week in March(not the 3rd like usual). So the dates are from March 9th to the 16th.

Let me know if you are still planning on taking the kids for any time in March break or not. I would prefer to have the kids home by March 16th though as Christian's birthday is the sunday March 17
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HER: It will depend on whether Steve has THAT week off, I would watch them myself all day...but to be honest they are not MY kids. So make sure that any 'visits' are arranged soley through steven now
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ME: You don't need to be rude with me. I just emailed both you and Steve so that I knew someone would get it. I wasn't rude in my message and yes I know the kids are NOT yours, but you did get into a relationship with Steve knowing full well he has 2 children....but in no way do I ever expect you to think they were yours.

I will definitely(after this) make sure I never deal with you and only with Steve
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HER: My intent was not to be rude. Just honest. Im tired of making the effort since no one else does...you don't help and to be honest neither does steve...Everytime it comes to having the kids I end up having to reorganize my life. THey visit more with me than they do their father because steve has to work in order to support his family. Since you are of the mind that if the kids don't see their dad its ALL his fault it doesn't help. I can't apologize for steve, in fact I know you don't expect me too but he is who he is. He didn't leave his children by choice...he left you. THere is a difference and while we have to live far away in order to make a living so he can put food on the plate and put a roof over the head of kids he can't afford to see does not make him an absent father. Not by choice, in fact I think you will find that he does more for his kids than many do.
Im sorry that you feel I'm rude. You want to be pissed at me that's fine. Be pissed at me, god knows that one of us has to be the adult here...work....support family....be realistic about who REALLY has the short end of the proverbial stick here.
Don't email me back.
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I didn't email her back. And Just to let you know what things are like The kids never see their father. I have full custody and he has open visitation...so all he has to do is talk to me about when he wants to have the kids....I do NOT make him ever take the kids, it's totally up to him. It's not like others where the father takes the kids every other weekend or anything. So he can have the kids when he isn't working. So I don't understand her whole thing about all that. I never ever force the kids on him and would never do that either as I love the kids too much for that. I don't mind having them all the time I love them.

Jen

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that was rude -- Marla, 09:52:07 02/26/08 Tue