有見地有見地~ -- 九濟堂

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Subject: 有見地有見地~

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Date Posted: 03:33:30 10/05/03 Sun
In reply to: AMELIA 's message, "Re: 講波歡迎,賭波免了...=)" on 00:09:28 10/05/03 Sun

>而係應該讓學生認識事情是甚麼模樣!學校應該同學生討論,而?>ㄛO...just say
>nonono..賭波唔好的說話....簡直係失敗!係外國的學校賭係一
>個課題!一個好重要的topic!

十分認同這個觀點丫~
一味向學生說nonono是不能夠令學生不睹博的
要令學生不睹博,首先應該係要令學生清楚知道睹博是什麼一回事
再引導學生清楚明白睹博既害處

情形有點兒像性教育一樣,學校冇一堂正正式式既性教育堂,
同學們天生對性有好奇,不能從正常途徑滿足好奇,自不然會透過色情刊物、影像等等來"滿足"這方面的好奇~
而校方一方面透過校規限制色情刊物、影像,令同學認為性是不對的行為,便只好自己收收埋埋自其色情刊物、影像.
然而這樣"自修"是十分危險的,因為他們用以"自修"的讀物並不是教科書,而是一些謗張失實的下三流刊物...
同學不但不能夠從中得到正確的性知識,更有可能在這些下三流的刊物中沾上一些不良的嗜好.
這樣無論對他本人或其他人都是百害而無一利的
要避免以上的情況出現,只有在同學接觸"性"時,在一旁對他們作出引導,以免仔們誤入歧途..

所以,我認為學校對賭博活動應該持有開放的態度,讓同學在接觸睹博的同時對他們作出指導~ 灌輸一個正確的意識,
而不是見某某人自波盤便記過,雖然殺一警百的效果o係短期內可能十分有效,
但是久而久之,同學對於因賭博而被處罰的心態便變成:
"我唔好彩先會比你捉到jei,你捉得幾多個丫~"
而不是自發性的抗拒賭博.在校內,他們不睹博
但是一離開學校便另一回事,
這樣的教學成功嗎? 靠嚇而不是自動自覺是濟記傳統/精神嗎?

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