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Subject: 同意

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Date Posted: 23:34:08 11/12/03 Wed
In reply to: 6BKen 's message, "我的疑問" on 21:53:14 11/12/03 Wed

團長的話不禁令我覺得，聖芳濟的同學都喜歡暗地裡咒罵別人去宣洩自己的不滿，而不是尋求解決辦法。

我自己對此的感受的確很深。每年運動會期間，九濟堂總有數篇指責童軍的。可是，五年來，我從不見過一位同學當面向童軍會長投訴。
又例如，今年萬聖節派對，有同學傳言學生會"呃錢"，但從沒有一位同學向我提出要求審閱萬聖節派對財政報告。

大家都總是放棄了面對面溝通的權利，而選擇了不用負責任的表達方式。當然，既然不用負任何責任，我想，自然結果並不明顯。更甚的是，理論上被批評者都有權不作回應吧，因為他根本不知道該向誰回應!

九濟堂的留言，希望真不要變成團長所說般，成為單向強制的溝通。

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