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Date Posted: 16:31:03 06/10/06 Sat
Author: Hannah
Subject: Re: this is weird, help me a guy problem:(
In reply to: Unknown 's message, "Re: How do I talk to a guy I like?" on 09:55:58 11/05/04 Fri

Okay this is weird i met this great guy through my boyfriend which is now a ex boyfriend and there cousins,is that a bad move? Every time we would go to the movies this great cousin of his would come along he was like the third wheel but actually the whole time i enjoyed being with him rather then my supposably boyfriend at the time it turns out me and this boyfriend start to just not talk anymore or even hang out and he'd barley call anymore or even want to hang out and which was really odd because we all went to the movies ever sunday and i do mean every sunday it all of a sudden stopped and this cousin of his started calling me and hes caring and cool and great and he even came over to my house and the ex boyfriend never even attempted that he's cousin even met my parents and he never did. The cousin came over like almost ever day after work just to go walking with me around the neighbourhood he took me for a boat ride and he called me all the time and we would talk about old ex's you know the good old stuff it almost seemed like maybe it was all just a weird dream iam thinking ok is it wrong to like this guy and what am i thinking? To make this all short it was about a month and we were still talking so one day at my house i was leaning up against his truck talknig to him and i said matt i really like you and he ruined that moment when he said no,no dont get attached i cant let you do that and i dont do that anymore and he said sweetheart it wont work out i still have feelings for my ex girlfriend but we will never get back together he told me that to like someone you have to have chemistry its when you want to be around that person all the time like you cant get enough of them but he was always around we made each laugh we are on the same pages that sounds like chemistry to me doesnt it and from that moment my heart was broken the guy that calls me every night the guy that shared a hotdog with me and goes walking with me the guy that truly understands me doesnt like me that way now what do i say what do i do? so now that thats over hey we are still friends he says forever friends he's even told me iam his best friend and he's been over once to my house to go walking since then but other then that he comes to my work sometimes and calls seldomly not nearly as much but after i told him how i felt he called there for a long time even when he knew how i felt we went on the boat together he came over after that and even called everyday its been about 3 months since i told him how i felt and now he doesnt call that much it seems only when he is bored he does work alot but still he use to call all the time i dont think its the me telling him how i felt part i just think he's maybe found a girlfriend and i've found a boyfriend so its weird now but what went wrong am i old news i still want to be friends but i dont want to be the one always calling him making him think hes the only one but we are friends dont friends call each other? why did things turn out this way and how can i make it better does anybody have the answers? This is weird please help me:(

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