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Date Posted: 02:30:25 11/27/07 Tue
Author: 城主
Subject: 再說活動參與者

最近經常有男校及女校活動,
當中有動機非常高的,亦有動機非常低的,
不過在同事努力下,兩者結果都是一樣,都是開開心心完成活動。

不過,在當中較令人傷腦筋是男校出來的結果是,
較女校參差,往往需要較多氣力才能令氣氛達至高峰。

其實當中發現是女同學不太介懷自己的表現,
可能有些活動較「益智」的時候,
她們仍樂意投入活動。
而男同學則可能在一個男人世界裡,
往往需要表現 / 保護自己,
常常扮作愛理不理的樣子,很孤高、但又想投入,
在兩難之間,往往便放棄,站在一旁。

其實在編排中,則因應男孩子性格,
安排高空挑戰在活動中,令他們在活動中表現真我,
可能有些硬著頭皮接受挑戰,有些則退縮得鴉雀無聲,
但最後都能夠真實地向眾人剖白內心世界,
表示自己在這刻是甚麼心情。
其實作為導師在此時已算完成任務,在這班男人世界內,
曾幾何時能坦白而又真誠表示自己的弱點呢。

其實在我中學生涯有很好的經歷,有男女校時代、也有男校時期,
當中亦明白神為何要做男做女,
男仔有女仔在場時顯得特別起勁,
女仔有男仔在場時也表現得很聰明,很願意發表意見,
不受任何人唆使。

如果你有子女的話,我都較建議讓他們入讀男女校,
讓他們盡快感受真實社會是怎麼樣。

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