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Date Posted: 21:40:07 07/12/04 Mon
Author: 玉林
Subject: 化學的人

公司有個同事去世了，今早參加他的葬禮。
意外發生在上星期二，中午時候他帶兒子去暑期游泳班，自己卻遇溺，星期四醫生正式宣佈不治。
他屬於我服務的部門，全組只有二十多人，所以每人的關係都比較密切。這兩個星期每人都沒多說話，氣氛死寂。

去世的同事是個印度人，本來下星期就要第二度做為人父。
他待產的妻子連同大兒子都沒有出席。
父母從印度來了，到步前都不知道兒子已經出事，還以為一向身體不太好的小兒子病倒了，訂好機票準備接回印度休養。

今早的葬禮用了印度教的儀式。
燒香、在遺體上濾上不同的祭物如花瓣、米、牛奶、水、沙、和不知名的東西、又用水果、鮮花等陪葬、再放錢幣進遺體手中。
去世同事的父親負責大部份儀式，某些儀式他母親亦要參加。

心裡挺不舒服，看見他父母親在遺體前的表現，就算不是跟這個同事十分相熟都會落淚。
可是另一方面我感到心裡很平安，因為我知道我有天父的看顧，有甚麼不測都只是暫時睡了，將來必定跟衪在天家相聚。

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