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Subject: Re: Apa penyebabnya?


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butongpay (butongpay)
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Date Posted: 16:20:16 12/07/06 Thu
In reply to: Kera Sakti 's message, "Re: Apa penyebabnya?" on 15:51:56 12/05/06 Tue

salam Tao,

Hallo Sesiung semua. Saya pikir itulah ke-anekaragaman. Kadang - kadang kita sulit menerima orang yang berbeda pendapat dengan kita dan apalagi kalau dia selalu merasa benar terus dan tidak mau tahu tentang kita.'keras kepala' itu istilahnya. Masalahnya apa yang kita bisa belajar dari ke-anekaragaman. Memang sulit. Sayapun juga kesel.

Namun memaksakan kehendak ke orang lain juga nggak bisa dikatakan benar.Dan belum tentu orang yang sependapat dan banyak dinyatakan benar. Kata tepatnya kita harus selalu harus 'waspada'.

Prinsip diskusi yang benar adalah synergy kalau ndak bisa ya win - win. Namun kebanyakan dari kita pilihnya adalah win - lose. Nah inilah sumber pertengkaran.

Prinsip saya sih. Benar belum Tentu Benar, Salah belum tentu salah. Jadi selalu ambil jalan tengah aja deh.

butongpay

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