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Date Posted: 14:57:26 01/24/06 Tue
Author: julie
Subject: Re: how do you know when to make a move?
In reply to: Alex 's message, "Re: how do you know when to make a move?" on 09:23:09 01/24/06 Tue

hey Alex,
Well you know and understand everything there is to understand about the same position in our confusing lives that we have gotten into...Love is such a crazy, confusing and hurtfull thing at times that theres only so much you can try to gain someones love for you...I know myself that I haven't experienced nearly as much as some other people have on this forum, because I'm just a highschool student, but I do know what it feels like when you and someone else connect. They know it and you know it but no matter how much you both want one another it just never happens...For several reasons I guess but it's agrivating and frustrating to know that the person you love is right in front of you and you can't say anything, and neither can they...You pretend to be friends when you both know that theres something more...All I can say is that you have to have faith...Faith in yourself and life in general...You never know where your life is going to lead you, but make your best efforts to get your goal, which is your girl.
goodluck and thanks for writing,


>Haven't been present for a while and it's nice to see
>so many subjects still working...
>On this special one tho...
> I have been in the same position for more then a
>couple of years now, and I still can't bare to say the
>truth. It is so hard to say it isn't it? I mean I
>think sometimes she knows, but the question (and with
>it probably the asnwer) just ... is just suspended in
>mid air amongst us... and u can't reach it, no mater
>how hard you tried. I guess the biggest risk is: will
>you loose each other if it ends, if she doesn't share
>the feelings? What if this and what if that and
>basicaly, just What if?... I think that is the thing
>that scares us the most.
>I am sorry I can't say anything that will help your,
>well our case... but I do still stand behind the thing
>that the truth is, in most cases, the best choice.
>After that it's all guts and hope for glory.
>>hey Julie,
>>feel free to ask for advice, in case you feel like
>>needing one... you can discuss it off the forum via
>>email - maybe it's better... ;)
>>yep, such decisions are probably the most hard ones in
>>take care,
>>>hey stef,
>>>thanks for the imput ill consider it. Its just so
>>>hard. decisions like these are a pain, but I guess
>>>thats life.
>>>take care,

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