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Date Posted: 21:48:30 11/29/01 Thu
Author: 煩煩的Catherine
Subject: 有問題呀~搵人答下啦..........

究竟"愛一個原來不容易"這句說話對嗎??
有冇人可以覆下我呀~~~
好煩....好煩....真係好煩~~~~

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[> Re: 有問題呀~搵人答下啦.......... -- lemon, 01:41:31 11/30/01 Fri

兩睇啦,唔係,是四睇
睇下你付出少回報又唔介意少
或者係付出多,唔介意回報少
定係付出少,而想回報多
最後係付出多,回報又想多啦

前兩者多數被人玩,但係愛得比較易,但較難放低
後兩者係多數玩人,而且係愛得困難,唔想付出嘛,
又容易放低lu

你話你係邊類?


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[> [> Re: 咁世俗的答案..... -- Queenie, 12:53:20 11/30/01 Fri

「愛」從來都不易

當中付出與回報的問題的確分了如leomn話講的四類
但我覺得兩個人的愛情,
有時衡量自己屬於邊一類唔只為了確定沒有俾人玩
(在肯定坉曮Y玩你之後...^O^)

辛苦或者是因為你我們既相信愛應該是互動的
同時在關係之中我們總喜歡覺得自己是「俾」多d果個....
其實講咁多都是一個問題---
睇兩個人之間如何看自己的定位,
到最後是否覺得自己的定位令你愛得來~~~


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[> Re: 有問題呀~搵人答下啦.......... -- yen, 18:27:21 11/30/01 Fri

會唔會唔係愛一個人易唔易既問題呢?
而係你到底愛乜野既問題呢?
我記得小雁講過
愛一個人,你唔會捨得妗h,唔會捨得坌y瓷B、、
甚至唔會去考慮邊個愛得多、愛得扺d...

一旦會去衡量既時候
你還算愛妎隉H
定還是已經變得愛自己呢?


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[> [> Re: 愛的解釋仍然沒完沒了...... -- Queenie, 01:47:42 12/01/01 Sat

人的私心畢竟是最難放下及解釋的....
當我們自以為一切都為對方設想,
到頭來發現自己仍然圍著自己跑來跑去地要求~~~~~

係lor~~~~人呀人, 你到底愛緊d 咩呢呵?


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