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Date Posted: 12:58:31 03/16/04 Tue
Author: Ryan
Subject: Re: bored
In reply to: ann 's message, "bored" on 17:36:27 03/22/03 Sat

If you are feeling bored, then he is probably feeling bored too. How often do the two of you get intimate? He might even be seeing someone on the side. The problem is that both of you are too afraid to talk about it. It is a supposed "secret" that neither of you want to mention. Maybe he is too afraid to start over also. But the truth is that the relationship is useless if both of you are miserable. If you just burst the bubble I think both of you will quickly admit that you want out of the relationship. It may hurt a little at first and you may consider running back to him, but after a few days you will realize that the short term pain was definately worth the long-term freedom and happiness.

I would say things like - Are you satisfied with this relationship? I'm bored here, are you? Maybe we don't have as much in common as we thought? Should we spend some time apart to see how we feel? Try some of those and see how he responds. Tell me what you think.

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