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Subject: Re: I want to die now~~


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Date Posted: 16:25:37 09/13/04 Mon
In reply to: pat 's message, "Re: I want to die now~~" on 07:42:47 02/04/04 Wed

>>There is nothing to live for. I want to die but I'm
>even too chicken to do it. I tried to die in a car
>crash but I didn't even get hurt bad. I hate my life,
>Help me die

Here is a bit of "in the now", practical wisdom I think we all should contemplate. If we kill ourselves, we are not in control AT ALL of what is to come. We could go to Heaven, we could go to hell, we could simply cease to be--end of existence, period. At least here, on Earth, alive and, while not perhaps well, at least alive--we are in CONTROL, at least a little bit. The thing that scares me most in loss of control, loss of free will to do or not to do, to go or not to go where I want. I hate to be sacreligious here, but I have to say it--here we are gods. We are the gods of our own lives. Yes, there are many things and influences which have varying effects on our lives, but we, ultimately, are the decision-makers. So take charge. If you lost your job, fuck your job. There are others. Maybe not high-paying, but they are there. Lost your girlfriend or wife? Look for another. People grow and change, so you change too. Adapt, be open to change, and be STRONG. The world is a circle. Bad things happen, but good things happen, too. Remember that YOU are in charge of YOU, and don't let anyone try to tell you different.

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Dont give up.
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Date Posted: 19:27:32 09/13/04 Mon

>>There is nothing to live for. I want to die but I'm
>even too chicken to do it. I tried to die in a car
>crash but I didn't even get hurt bad. I hate my life,
>Help me die
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I have tryed to kill myself too. I have been to the piont ware I was actually starting to take up the slack in the trigger of my revolver but i just could not do it. I believe that God loves me and well not let me die until I have served my purpose here.
No I dont know what that might be.
Iam lucky I have parents that really love me and I know it would destroy them.
Im just trying to say that I have been then. It really can get better with time and hard work if you finally get tired of not being happy all the time.
I was not planning on rambling this long. Sorry.
Dont give up.



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