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Date Posted: 15:08:31 06/21/04 Mon
In reply to: XOX 's message, "Re: 那你有何高見呢?" on 12:41:07 06/21/04 Mon

//Why should a raped victim has to worry about what other disgusting sexists considered 貞節? Isn't that bad enough that she has to be raped, but she has to continue look down upon by sexists who considered it her fault to lost her virginity to a rapist?//
生在那時代的女人確是很可憐,明明不是自己的錯,卻要給別人輕看。但不能否認那時代的人確是這樣。

//What would you do if you are raped? Do you feel ashamed that you are no longer a virgin? Do you think that your future husband would mind that you are not a virgin?//
如果我真的遇到這樣的事,我會不開心,但我知道這不是我的錯,我相信一個真正愛我的人不會介意這事的。實在我們這時代的人亦不會太介意自己的妻子是否處女,(雖然亦會有人些介意),甚至有些人亦不會介意伴侶對自己不忠,因為他自己是一樣嘛。
但我們基督徒卻不能因為這時代的人不重視節操就放任自己,我們尊重神,不應犯淫亂的罪(因為神看是惡的。)婚後亦要忠於配偶。

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Re: 基督徒放任自己 being a sexistXOX15:23:17 06/21/04 Mon


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