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Date Posted: 15:41:19 01/04/07 Thu
Author: Rhonda K (..this is way way long)
Author Host/IP: d207-216-214-186.bchsia.telus.net / 207.216.214.186
Subject: You are never too old
In reply to: Dave 's message, "((( Sandy )))" on 11:12:05 01/04/07 Thu

Hi honey,
Lornes mom is in her early 80's and she just found a partner to spend her time with, 3 years ago. They are both very content and happy to have someone to spend time. And by what she says...even at that age, the work and commitment to the relationship are still existent.

A relationship needs to nourished all the time, it takes work...I think those that are not as fragile in heart and spirit as us, have it easier....but I know for me, I hold on too tight...and when a relationship is past saving, I still don't let go....for me, I hold onto my past...way too long and don't forgive...

If my relationship were to end with Lorne, I don't know if I would need anyone in my life. Not right away...but I also know...that I like the company of someone I am compatible with...if only to have a conversation at night about world events and changes in our lives...it keeps me learning..and I think my relationships have all done that...they have taught me more about my needs and wants...with Lorne, he has taught me, that no matter what condition I am in..I am worth loving...as he is..worth loving.

Work, lots and lots of work...but when in a truly committed, trusting and honest relationship, it doesn't always feel like work and then somedays...you just want to
KILL THEM...ROFL...

Love and hugs...
My mom is 66 years young this year, a beauty and more healthy than I am...she is quick to smile, quick to joke about sex and stuff...and more honest than anyone I know when it comes to what she needs and wants...I still have hope that she will someday, find that man that is not intimidated by her independence...and that her kids will always come first. Her last few Men friends, could not handle that they were not #1 in her life...AND one even thought that she would go away at Christmas with him...Whoa, that one didn't last long. She compromised and said, "Spend Christmas with me and my kids...and we can go away for New years."...He said that was not what he wanted, she shrugged and said...well, have a nice trip!
Native peoples are very into family and extended family...from aunts, uncles, cousins...I find it odd that Lorne does not want to go and visit his mom more...and she is only 1/2 a day away from us....my mom is 2 days drive from us...and some days I just want to hop in the car and head up to see her...LOL.

Anyway,...I am babbling...the long of the short...I wanted you to keep looking...I met Lorne online and rule of thumb for anyone who wants a relationship like that, meet the person within two weeks on connecting with them...that way expectations...are nipped in the bud..because meeting online and meeting in person...is way way different.

Love and hugs
MUH MUH MUH
RHONDA

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