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Date Posted: 06:34:09 08/25/06 Fri
Author: Mikki
Author Host/IP: 24-231-170-232.dhcp.bycy.mi.charter.com / 24.231.170.232
Subject: Re: Back from Florida
In reply to: Dave 's message, "Re: Back from Florida" on 00:32:14 08/25/06 Fri

Hey, I've thought about empty nest. It is hard to watch Sarah make her own choices even though they are bad ones. Now that she is 18, she thinks the world revolves around her. She thinks she is the sun, and we all must revolve around her. She didn't come home last night, we had no idea where she was. When I found out she didn't come home, I called her cell phone and all she said was "I fell asleep at Kyle's watching a movie. Do I believe her? NO...she hasn't given me any reason to believe anything that comes out of her mouth. She fired her therapist yesterday...she doesn't need therapy anymore she says. Blew off her last appointment, now I owe the woman $100.
It's coming out of Sarah's money. I am starting to turn into my mother and want to kick her outof the house. Mike won't let me do that though......but what the hell are the rules when a child (and I mean intellectually she is a child), is 18? Do I have any recourse to make her respect the rules of the household? I swear to God that I want to put her on the plane to Australia and keep Lyndsey. Lyndsey is a good kid, very naive, and has the heart of a child. I was just happy she came back from San Antonio..I was afraid she wasn't going to come home. She got a promise ring from David.....3 rubies in a gold ring. David doesn't have a pot to piss in, and she is totally in love with him. He is 27, and is a waiter at Neiman Marcus. Still lives with mommy and daddy, he is a loser. I wait for her to tell me she is moving. What do I do? She has a full ride to UM, and she will be throwing her life away over a guy. Sounds familiar doesnt' it? I am turning into my mother and want to kick her out. That fucked me up big time......I don't want to do that, but that is all I know. Empty nest???? Maybe......pissed off? YES.

I got your email.....no need to call, I tried to send you an email back but it won't go through. I know what you are going to say, and I can't deal with anymore losses in my life. I just wish you the best. You will get past the war..I hope you do. You will be happy for once.

Take care, Mikki

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