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Date Posted: 16:22:11 10/10/02 Thu
Author: crazy4love
Subject: Crying in my beer

I am living with my boyfriend and we have been together for almost four years and he has asked me to marry him and given me the ring. we have been planning the wedding and I even have the dress. My family and his expect us to marry this coming year. The problem is that I have fallen head over heels for this guy I work with. He and I have known each other for the past two years. I started to flirt with him as soon as I met him but I was just playing around at first. Now I am not wanting to marry. I cant stop thinking abt this guy at my job. I look forward to going to work because I know I will see him there. The days he is off, I feel sad and disappointed. I love my boyfriend but it feels like I have transferred my feeling a lot and I feel quilty. The worst part is that the guy at work wont give me the time of day. I mean we speak and all but he doesnt return my feelings so it's not like we are both in love or anything. I dont want to hurt my boyfriend but feel it is unfair to marry him when I feel so strongly for another man. The pain is unbearable. I am so depressed and torn, any advice??

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