Re: Self-Esteem Issues.. -- Dreams

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Subject: Re: Self-Esteem Issues..

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Sandy

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Date Posted: 17:00:15 05/20/05 Fri
In reply to: Chocolate 's message, "Re: Self-Esteem Issues.." on 00:10:05 05/17/05 Tue

Chocolate is right, no matter what we look like, most women don't feel good about themselves. I'm not crazy about this guy showing your picture to anyone. It was not kind at all of him to state that you looked better in the picture and you could lose weight. First of all, how perfect is he? Even if he is in good physical shape, what about his hair? or skin? Second of all, although of coarse you need an attraction to be with someone, if you love someone your not going to be that concerned about weight, as long as health is not an issue. No one is perfect, especially men!!!!!!Listen to me, if you judge your self esteem by others comments, you are always going to be unhappy. Some people will say untrue nasty things just because they are jealous, or want to put you down to elevate themselves. You need to assess your feelings for the boyfriend and this guy. There might be other reasons you found this 2nd guy besides you feel smaller. Please go to the other board for support. No one wants you to start throwing up, because this will be the worst thing, emtionally and physically. Take care and see you at the other board. Sandy

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