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Date Posted: 08:43:04 12/19/04 Sun
Author: Sandty
Subject: Re: Women helping women
In reply to: Nicole 's message, "Re: Women helping women" on 17:28:04 12/16/04 Thu

I have friends who have suffered through addictions and infidelity. As far as sexual addiction and cybersexual addiction I only know what I have read or saw on TV. I would like to help you because my friends who have gone through marital problems have truly helped me as much as my shrink. Do you want to share a little bit about the situation? How long you have been together, how long has he had this problem, does he think he has a problem? I am currently going through marital problems after 10 years of marriage. They are only slightly improving now that my husband is admitting that something is wrong with him ( he is actually clinically depressed and on now started anti-depressants). I felt the same as you, he is really a good man and treated me well, but then things started changing about a year ago, but until they admit a problem, it is really hard to change things. I have several friends who have dealt with addiction/cheating husband. Some are still together, others are not. I didn't think that I could talk to my friends and then little by little I started sharing and sometimes you would be surprised how many people do care about you and have similar experiences or have friends with those experiences. I know though, that it is really difficult to talk about certain topics face to face such as the sexual addition/cybersexual addiction. You're not sure if friends will judge you or what. I think it is really common, because I did see it on 20/20 and it involved family men and even young men in their early twenties. Please write back and I'll try my best to help you and sometimes it feels good to vent. Sandy

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