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Date Posted: 15:11:27 04/16/05 Sat
Author: scapegoat you?! that's rich!
Subject: Re: NOTEsilly man has died from neglect-eom
In reply to:
bobbi
's message, "Re: NOTEsilly man has died from neglect-eom" on 08:20:35 04/16/05 Sat
Ive been talking about REAL things you've done, not imaginary, not blown out of proportion, not small things-things you've done that have caused me pain-things you chose to do without a WORD of warning to the one person who would be affected negatively, the one person who would wonder, worry and feel bad about them as it became apparent that we were never again going to play a game together, that I was never again going to be able to start a chat, etc etc. And as I wondered, worried and felt bad what did you do? You told me lies-told me that this happened because of this, that happened because of that, etc-never the truth. Later, over two months after all the changes had gone into effect you told a partial truth, that all the changes had nothing to do with me-right, though they certainly changed my life very much. Then, finally you admitted the truth, or at least the general truth-that you gave into you husband's wishes that you stop contacting me, only you didn't tell me that when you knew that was what you were doing. You had reassured me only a couple of days before the changes that nothing would change, much later you implied things were only temporary when you blamed all the changes on things going on in your life-but that was another lie since you knew you had told dan 'no more bob'. You just didn't tell bob about it, you let me find out the hard way. Scapegoating, my ass-everything I am upset about are things YOU'VE DONE THAT HURT AND WOULD'VE HURT ANY BEST FRIEND and you never even act sorry about any of it, let alone say the words, 'Im sorry'.What garbage, to make yourself into the victim when you have treated me like crap so often for so long! My only 'crime' in this is that i've become so fed up with a socalled best friend who can do these things to me that I speak out, hoping to make some sense of it and hoping that sooner or later you will see how you have acted and actually try to change-but that is truly hopeless.
You refuse to see any of this as your responsibility though you're the one who has done these things! You never even apolgized about the BB gift-I swear, if you ran me over with a car you'd find a way to make it all my fault and not shed a tear. You're never wrong, you never have to say you're sorry-lol, god, what a perfect system you've got-you control almost everything, change it at will, walk all over your best friend and then when he gets upset, its all his own fault. Jesus Christ.
If I didn't know better Id think youre dumb, but you are far from that so you must know the truth no matter how hard you fight it and try to make yourself look like the long-suffering, oh so sensitive and caring 'coddler' of mean, old Bob. Right. I know better and so do you.
Tell your family and friends your BS, it doesn't work with me, I've been on the receiving end of your self-centered, controlling, rude, hypocritical and insensitive behavior too much, for too long.
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