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Date Posted: 08:47:42 08/09/02 Fri
Author: adapted from某女作家作品
Subject: 女人也是貓

一段感情,無論誰追誰,到了一段時間後,通常都是女方付出的多很多。
在付出很多很多之後,她會開始complain:「喂,疼我多些好嗎?」
男方就會出現一大堆理由︰女方不體諒啦、忙啦、女方好煩啦……就是不去實行女方的要求。
有人說,女人的愛情是被愛的。又有人說,對女人是不可以解釋與講理由的,女人就如小貓小狗,只要疼愛便好了。
當女人要求男人疼她多些時,男人苦口苦面覺得好煩之餘,又會想︰「?,我不是已經做得足夠嗎?平日也有電話問候,生日也有禮物,怎麼可能不夠?」
問題在於,男人做了一步,永遠幻想自己行了十步,關心了一分,以為自己做足十分。
有時候,他明知自己做得不夠,但也不肯承認,亦不去改。覺得沒必要嘛、不肯付出嘛……
無論是覺得自己已經做得足夠或是明知自己做得不夠,被一個女人complain不稱職,男人大概也不會好受。
於是女人越要求,男人便越抗拒。長此下去,彼此的感情只會越來越差。
其實再聰明再理智再堅強的女人,也真是一頭小寵物,要男友疼愛呵護。當男人寵愛一隻小貓時,他反而照顧周全,細心呵護,但面對一個女人,又多數有求不應,何解?

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